
i know people say that, but i struggle to be proud of myself with anything at all. even if i graduated on time idk if i’d really feel pride in that, bc in my mind it’s like not that big of an accomplishment and something many people could do (i do not have a difficult major). so if i graduated late i think i would just feel shame😭
yeah, i know people try to be positive about it but it just feels really shitty. and blah blah social construct and whatever but it feels like it means that i’m less than all my peers. sure my peers aren’t dealing with the same exact shit i’m dealing with but idk it just feels like a failure and it doesn’t help much when people who do graduate on time try to say it’s not so bad. idek if i’ll graduate late atp, but the odds are not looking too good