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Okay this is embarrassing but it’s an anonymous app so here we go. I’m so tired of never having a bf or having done anything intimate. I don’t trust a random hu but like I don’t want to be a virgin anymore. Dates haven’t worked out and I’m just over it 😭
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Anonymous 4w

wait no this is not embarrassing bc I was just thinking this. LOL

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Anonymous 4w

It’s overrated tbh I didn’t get into my first relationship until 21. I didn’t have sex until this year at 23. Emotional intimacy is more important than physical. Spending a night out with my girls always tops anything I do with my bf lol

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Anonymous 3w

23 and I’m in the same boat as you💕 still a virgin. unfortunately the guys I have talked to only wanted me for one thing, I was out of there so fast lmao

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Anonymous 3w

i feel the same way. im 22 and i’m so embarrassed!! i swear people just don’t consider me to be an option or something. i don’t know what i’m doing wrong. i’ve never been hit on or anything and i’m not ugly!! i feel so pathetic watching my friends who are like 19 be in sexual relationships while i’m just alone all my life and i’m scared they’ll find out

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Anonymous 3w

Same but I’ve never even been on a date

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Anonymous 3w

as someone whos 19 and has only dated men 21-24yo. majority of men dont start to grow brains until around 22. and even then most of them still barely mature for a long time

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

🫶🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Thank you for the encouragement i really appreciate ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Thank you love :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

my friend the other day called this guy a loser cause he’s a 22 yo virgin. i had to go cry in the bathroom LOL😬

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Yuppppp same 🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

i skipped grades and was a senior in college when i started dating, and my first bf was graduating that semester, so we were in the same life stage. once he got out of college and into the world he decided he didnt want me. getting attention from other men post-graduation post-breakup is sooooo much easier bc the brains have started to develop!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

you’re all beautiful queens with a prince waiting for you but the princes are still in training.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Thank you for all the kind words beautiful :) you’re an amazing person 🩷

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