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Girl Talk 21w
Friendly reminder to never tell someone they look like they’ve lost weight and they were chunky the last time you saw them because you never know how they lost the weight, and what it will do to them! My GMA said this to me and now I’m not eating…
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Anonymous 21w

“You look so good!! ” my brain: “yes it’s working we must keep going 😈. Starve”

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Anonymous 21w

Besties please feed yourselves I haven’t had a normal bowel movement in literal years after recovery, there’s so much permanent damage done to my GI tract, it is not worth it💔I beg of y’all take care of your beautiful bodies

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21w

Thank youuuuu like it’s not good to say that to someone! And it’s always before I have an event or trip so I try to convince myself that I should keep going at least for whatever is coming up pleaseeee

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21w

I’ve been eating a little bit but I also don’t have the money to eat like I should be 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21w

That’s fair and was also a huge contributor for me too. It is okay to sign up for SNAP or EBT or WIC too. It is okay to get food from the food bank. I worked at a school and when the food bank came every month they allowed me to also take food after the kids went thru and that was really helpful. They also had it at the gym I worked at and I tried not to double dip but if they had fresh produce I would take that.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21w

You don’t have to sign up for that you can just show up when they have distributions in your community.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21w

It took me a long time to convince myself it was okay to accept community resources like that bc I could pay my bills etc so I thought it wasn’t for me to benefit from when other people might need it more, but if you apply to WIC or something they’ll give you stuff based off your income and in reality if they give you anything then you’re definitely part of the groups that benefit most from it, so it is okay to accept that kind of help. That’s what it’s there for

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