
today it’s basically guaranteed that you’ll get lolcowed by gender crits if you post pictures and aren’t like supermodel attractive. this will happen within like, 3 months of posting your first photo as a trans woman. it becomes a core memory and some people never really heal from that experience
idk shopping for clothes can be kind of traumatizing for trans girls especially cuz sometimes cis women will be extra mean to you to try and “teach you a lesson” about womanhood. my mom did that the first time i went shopping for a winter coat and i cried for like a week afterwards
im so sorry she treated u like that, womanhood should be abt sisterhood not abt being horrible to others❤️ i meant like literally why is a 32 band size = “it’s so over”, but ig if one person was a piece of shit to u over it ur feelings could spiral. i hope u are around ppl who love, support, and affirm u!
that’s such a horrible way for ppl to approach u, i never heard of this before but unfortunately it makes sense for all of the misogyny ingrained in everyone. and ur not the worst or a failure, ur learning how to be urself openly and some ppl are real pieces of shit abt it. they’re projecting their own insecurities onto u, which is not a reflection of u in any way.