Could you say you appreciate him as a friend but you don’t appreciate the physical contact and set that boundary? I saw a great Tik Tok about answering follow up questions about setting boundaries I could try to dig it up if you want!

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it’s been years, he takes every chance to hug me and be close to me. if it was anyone else i would literally cut them out of my life but he is so tightly woven into my life. help. genuinely what do i do im so uncomfortable.

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josh has had a pretty big crush on me since i was fifteen. i have told him multiple times that im not interested (im literally lesbian) but he simply will not give up hope that the two of us could get together.

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