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Would you pay $600 for a one day round trip 4 hour flights to attend a “wedding” that’s only 3 hours of coffee and sweets, no ceremony, no dress, no flowers. Just coffee and talking w a small group of strangers no +1
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Anonymous 4d

It would have to be direct family or my best friend anyone else absolutely not

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Anonymous 4d

That’s insane. Even for a “real” wedding with the ceremony and all. I’m planning my wedding now and my fiancé and I agree it would be so selfish and rude to expect anyone to pay for more than a couple hours of travel by car and a discounted hotel room

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Anonymous 4d

Not at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

Maybe I’m just traumatized from my (former) best friend’s wedding costing me well over $1k as her MoH but I think marrying couples are expecting way too much of their guests and wedding parties nowadays

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

It’s my bestie from HS but idk once college started I get ppl grow apart and I did try to keep up our friendship she just rarely answered and then would call out the blue once every handful of months for like 5 minutes. We haven’t texted really since September, abt her wedding

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

Read my reply to #2. Not to mention I only know her mom and brother. And we all live in the same area besides them and I suppose a few of their friends they made along the way. Mainly HIS friends live in Texas as she upped her life for him after graduation

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

Not to mention it kinda hurt hard asf that we always talked abt MoH and to be each others, or I had to pick between her and my sister as life got older. Supposedly there’s no MoH but if there was I honestly don’t think it was me, I think Ik who else of the one person I only know by name

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