
My grandma had Alzheimer’s and if you can put her in a facility. It gets really rough tbh. When she gets confused go along with it, no reason to tell her over and over that a loved one passed & break her heart again & again. Have her read, play sudoku, cross words, word searches. If she can play an instrument let her play it as much as she wants
If she doesn’t remember something don’t pressure her, let it go & try again later. I’m sure doctors told you this stuff already but… idk. Also, this is a life-shattering diagnosis for you both. Don’t let anyone treat you like you’re supposed to be fine because you have every right not to be. You have every right to cry & scream & curse at God. I’ll be thinking of you & your mom, and if you accept it I’ll pray for you. I’m so sorry