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Nothing irritates me more than people acting like anxious attachment styles are more problematic than avoidant attachment styles.😀
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Anonymous 1d

Both are terrible it very different ways. One is not better than the other. They fear different things but avoidant attachment is definitely harder to repair than anxious.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

That’s what I’m saying… also i definitely wouldn’t go saying “oh this is harder to repair than that” cuz they’re both so different- like you said- and it’s not even comparable

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I’m currently studying clinical psychology and yes, avoidant attachment is slightly harder to repair when it comes to relationships. The fear of losing autonomy in a dynamic is the concept of autonomy is challenged (a relationship) is harder to work through than someone who has anxious attachment (fear of abandonment). This is in most cases, not all.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

That’s opinions based on knowledge you have

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8h

No it’s not. This is a widely known issue with both “treating” each style of attachment 💀. Everything is not an opinion and if you’d like I can attach a few studies and online resources.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6h

Can I just make a point here without you being technical? Jeez. I’m tired of people comparing them. That’s all I’m sayin

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6h

You said “that’s opinions based knowledge” and I then said it wasn’t because i was not going off opinions. But now I’m being too technical… And when we’re talking about things like social psychology it’s kind of hard not to be. They are automatically going to be compared and there’s nothing wrong about that. But they are different and require different approaches.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4h

I’m blocking your dumbass

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