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i haven’t felt butterflies in my stomach for liking someone since high school. my ex bf i was with for 2 years from 22-24 i didn’t even have butterflies for…and this guy made them happen in three days.
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Anonymous 3w

That’s cool but make sure to still have your list that needs to be checked love is devotion and a whole bunch of stuff that isn’t how you feel I can feel a lot of things but picking a partner depends on so much more-as a former person who fell madly in love with a love bomber lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

wait i’ve been told that i would probably fall for a love bomber bc i’m pretty naive do u have any specific advice to make sure i dont

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

he’s not a love bomber lol, we weren’t even flirting it was just his values. i’m 24 trust me i’ve been through a bad relationship and been to therapy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

i get really grossed out and icked by people who do that. i have extreme self awareness and emotional intelligence so i think everything through logically first

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

thank you though <3 i do agree, lots of young girls just base it off feelings unfortunately and there’s much more. i say this as someone who was living with, had animals and everything with their ex. i’ve been an extreme serious relationship so i know my way around now ):

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