
First of all, congratulations! You will gain a little bit more confidence each time you drive even if you stay close to home! Secondly I wanted to say that 20 isn’t as late as it feels! people can be reckless, fast, impaired, INPATIENT, weather dependently nervous, directionally lost, etc. you definitely did yourself a favor by waiting until you felt really ready. I didn’t take drivers ed at 15, I waited until I felt ready instead because of teenage pressure
Honestly girl one of the reasons I took so long to get mine was because I didn’t have anyone to bring me practicing like most of my friends don’t have theirs either (my boyfriend still doesn’t have a permit either) really don’t feel bad about it!! For me it was mostly the pressure and lowkey bullying from other people about not having it but I think it’s just important to not let what other people think get to you. You will get it on your own time and that’s the biggest favor you can do yourself
Thank you!! I feel comfortable driving already (I haven’t braved the highways much) but luckily my anxiety was just about the test. Honestly I’ve been driving on my own without it (I didn’t have people to bring me practicing) which I wouldn’t recommend but I am super lucky that the anxiety doesn’t get to me on the road. Thank you so much this makes me feel so much better.
Also I did take drivers ed in high school and it was such a horrible experience for me. I was going through a breakup that started a lot of really unhealthy eating habits, my driving instructor brought up 2 of my dead relatives, and was overall really mean and made my anxiety worse. I think doing drivers ed was honestly what made me take a bit longer to get mine. I’m really glad I waited until now to do it, puke and all haha