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This would be an absolute nightmare!
1274 upvotes, 15 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "This would be an absolute nightmare!"
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Anonymous 4w

I have 10 siblings and my mom would always complain about people judging her and now I’m like they sorta have a point 🥲

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Anonymous 4w

My great grandmother actually had 8 kids one after the other. Nightmare for me bc 1) i would never 2) i have 23 FIRST cousins (im a second cousin) so i have no idea who all im related to But also out of all of the branches that is the one that is the most genuinely kind

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Anonymous 4w

I just KNOW their house smell like dookie

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Anonymous 4w

Damn I know it must feel like Niagara for her every time she coughs, sneezes, or laughs or

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Anonymous 4w

One of the kids I went to high school with is the oldest of 18 kids. He was my age and the newest was a newborn when we graduated. I think about him often, wondering how he’s doing because he was often used as free childcare.

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Anonymous 4w

Same but how do parents actually afford that many children

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Anonymous 4w

my great grandmother had 24 kids, twins, triplets etc, but in central america at the time it was super dangerous so only 6 out of 24 survived 🧍🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

I think once those numbers get past three you immediately start spread yourself thin. I was parentified with my younger brother (eldest daughter 🫩) and my parents struggled to make things equal between three children. One in elementary and the others in Hs/college. And let me tell you it has caused so many issues in my house.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Yeah, poor guy was missing so much school just to take his siblings to appointments or practices. He was also on scholarship to be able to participate in our high school band because his family couldn’t afford the fees. I feel so bad for him and hope he’s doing well

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

You absolutely cannot give 10 kids the proper care a child needs

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

I also bet his parents didn’t show up for much of those events. A lot of times parents will show much more attention to the youngest because “awww this is the last time we’ll be able to watch a kindergarten recital” which yes it’s important to the littles but is shows that there’s no fair option to either child

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Yeah, they never showed up. Not when he made Drumline captain, not when we placed 10th in world championships, nothing. My parents made him a senior spotlight poster to hang up in the band hall because his parents didn’t.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

I totally agree, most of us have attachment issues and anxiety. I love my siblings, but it’s not fair.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

They don’t bestie

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

My mom’s one of 10 I feel you! So many cousins omg

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