why is a man here

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saying all this while i’m skinnier than you

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Anonymous #2 21h

Bc they have no respect for others

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Why do you sound like a 12 year old trying to be edgy? Go back to class or something.

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You’re clearly disrespectful, don’t have a life, or any hobbies bc you’re on here ragebaiting on an anonymous account. Truth hurts, don’t shoot the messenger, me saying this is helping you build character. ❤️ ❤️

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something someone who’s never touched a woman would say

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ur tone seems pretty pointed rn

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negative association with ppl i know or who use it and i just don't like it 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #10 20h

No we want women to be called women🤦🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 20h

deaduzz it's just an ick i didn't curse their bloodlines or steal their minoxidil

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 20h

they’re all jerking each other off rn

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Anonymous #13 20h

yes!

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girls? ladies? women? something that doesn’t sound so dehumanizing ?

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Anonymous #4 20h

It’s not supposed to be that deep though, most men that say females and they aren’t doing that to degrade you. I personally always call women women but we can’t control your feelings it’s not our fault you get mad at being called a female. Calll me a male and I’ll literally not care because that’s what I am. Why should I be mad at you calling me what I am when it’s even the medical term

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Anonymous #2 20h

men when women don’t want to be boiled down to their bodies: 😱💀🤬🤢

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Woman refers to a human female. Female can be used for a dog. Why use the scientific language for only women? You never hear people say male. It is derogatory, unless you also refer to men as males. But nobody does that lol

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Anonymous #14 20h

literally what does this have to do with your body just nitpicking anything to be offended on yikyak

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Anonymous #10 20h

Except it’s not being used as a medical term, it’s being used as a way to objectify women. Like we’re nothing but our gender.

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Anonymous #10 20h

it’s colloquially used to degrade and dehumanize women by reverting to simply using the biological term that’s applied to animals and plants… as opposed to the gendered human of woman/women. that’s the context its being used in, which we all can collectively agree is wrong and distasteful. hope this helps.

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Anonymous #15 20h

Go to class. Ur putting too much into this. Go bark in the corner

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Anonymous #7 20h

Like a good little female

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 20h

Dawg trust me 99% of people who call women females are NOT thinking as hard as you are.

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i mean your the one encroaching on women's spaces rn lolol

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Anonymous #10 20h

We know. Y’all are dumb

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Anonymous #10 20h

It’s not that hard to think when men, specifically incels, use it all the time to demean women that don’t want to sleep with them. Get your head out of your ass.

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Anonymous #3 20h

No I understand that, but most people who call women females aren’t doing it just to dehumanize them. Not everyone’s thinking THIS deep. If we also made calling men males the norm I’m 1000% sure you won’t see us crying about it on yikyak. Cause it’s literally not that deep

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Anonymous OP 20h

And now your assuming my gender

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Anonymous #7 20h

Men cockblock themselves then complain about loneliness epidemic

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Anonymous #15 20h

But if someone said this about woman you’d be typing a college level essay about how misogynistic they are. Maybe stop being so sensitive and your life would be SO much more enjoyable

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Anonymous #6 20h

I mean in my experience it’s men that care that much about trans women using the women’s bathroom.

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Anonymous #10 20h

You set yourself up for that one… Are we thinking too deep or can you only see the surface level?

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Anonymous #15 20h

Oh I love when they do that. Which is it 10 you have to pick one

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 20h

The few times I’ve said female instead of woman I wasn’t going in my head saying “hehe let me dehumanize this creature”. not everyone who says it is a incel. we’re just throwing out labels so much just ruining the value of the label atp

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Anonymous #15 20h

If I could only see the surface level I wouldn’t be saying not everyone’s thinking that deep, I can clearly understand where you’re getting at but you’re acting like everyone who says female is just a woman hater

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Anonymous #10 20h

We know! We know it isn’t intentional. Intent doesn’t negate impact.

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Anonymous #15 20h

Speaking from experience???

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Anonymous #16 20h

Yea. I find men very hot, but that’s all they provide. Every-time you guys open your mouth I no longer want to fuck you.

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Anonymous #10 19h

“female” refers to sex, do you not know basic definitions?

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Anonymous #14 19h

So then call men males too and it’s fine. But you don’t do that

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Anonymous #10 19h

… it’s inherently implied as derogatory to refer to women collectively as “females” outside of a scientific professional context. men also have more social privileges so yes you’re right, they cannot be victimized in the current patriarchal system by terminology. women have always been treated as lesser beings in practice, in terminology, in medical science, in education, and more. unfortunately, it is quite deep, my child. wear a life vest next time.

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personally I’d feel uncomfortable with you in the same bathroom, since you’re so addicted to fantasizing about people’s genitals.

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Anonymous #10 19h

It doesn’t matter intent if the impact is the same. All women are asking is to not be called a female outside of medical settings what is so hard about that. Arguing to keep using the word like this just tells me use absolutely use it to be demeaning and want to keep doing it.

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Anonymous #15 19h

Don’t listen then just fuck

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Anonymous #10 19h

the only reason men wouldn’t cry abt it is because there isn’t the same history of oppressive objectification of men lol

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Anonymous #16 19h

It’s hard when all you guys do is talk. Sometimes I want to ask you to sit pretty and shut up. But then i’d be wrong and a misandrist 🙄

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Ok so women’s restrooms have these things called stalls so we don’t see each other’s genitals while using the toilet so frankly women don’t care what’s genitals are in there. Anyone who cares about what’s going on in a random person’s pants when they’re just trying to do their business is insane.

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 19h

you know bathrooms are also for people with ostomy bags, catheters, etc. so like not everyone pulls out their genitals to use the toilet. some people don’t even have assholes lmfao 😂 i love talking science and human biology to people who act like knowing the difference between XX and XY means a strict binary system of a bathrooms functions 🤣

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Anonymous #15 19h

because boiling down people to their sex is wrong? why are you telling me to be a hypocrite, tf?

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 19h

my bad amethyst i agree with you, meant to reply to other guy but you probably knew that. 🔥

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Anonymous #3 19h

hard to talk with those people when they think they know their own chromosomes lmao, 99% of the US population has never been karyotyped. people just make assumptions about ASAB, it’s so egregious

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Anonymous #3 19h

Yeah no worries

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Anonymous #14 19h

i got a friend who is XXY and he’s just got longer fingers and limbs. he still pisses and shits normally. he’s a cis man who likes ducks but he’s just not XY 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Anonymous #13 19h

most girls don’t like to be called a female. obviously in a medical context it’s fine and nobody’s crying over it but it feels dehumanizing. a little empathy/sympathy can go a long way ❤️

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Anonymous #10 19h

Calm down you angry female

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Anonymous #17 19h

I don’t understand how that is a hard concept to understand

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Anonymous #18 19h

no worries i just see a lot of incel or manosphere men use it, also a lot of people feel it's dehumanizing as female can refer to an animal/is often used in a scientific context, not a casual one

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Anonymous #18 19h

personally, it's just an ick for me.

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Anonymous #18 19h

The bare bones issue is that female outside of the medical setting is used more often than not to demean women and reduce them to their gender. As you can probably tell from this comment section, men don’t like when you call them out on their bullshit and are feigning ignorance or calling it “not that deep”, which is really all a sign that they don’t want to lose their “covert” way of objectifying women.

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Anonymous OP 19h

ohh okay, because like when i typed out my comment i originally put “as a female..” because i personally don’t find it offensive like if someone said “why do most females like pink” or something like that but obviously to me if someone was like “all you females are bitches” i’d be upset or if it was used offensively but i completely understand why it can be offensive

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Anonymous #18 19h

i get you, it's as simple as that

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Anonymous #20 19h

this

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Anonymous #18 19h

I’m on the side of “just use women unless the situation calls for female”. Like in your example of “why do most females like pink” I’d ask why women couldn’t have been used because the question isn’t coming from a scientific perspective, though honestly the reaction the person who wrote the question has in response to that really tells me if it was meant as an insult or not.

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 19h

yeah like if the person saying it was saying females like a slur or being rude and aggressive i’d be like okay bud calm down but if it’s like a kind calm person saying it i wouldn’t mind, i also don’t think most men think to hard about it or mean it in a rude condescending way unlike the other men who do so i don’t personally jump on anyone for using it unless it’s personally offensive or condescending yk

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Anonymous #17 19h

I understand now thank you mate

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Anonymous yamazo07 18h

“Waiting for them to break up” focus on yourself lmao

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Anonymous #9 18h

Says the person who replied to my comment

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Anonymous yamazo07 18h

touche

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Because you aren’t treated as inferior. If you were racist toward a black person, it has a much larger impact than if you were to a white person, because they are already treated as inferior. The simple difference between punching down vs up.

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You poor thing… women call all men trash 💔 💔 while women in afghanistan can’t leave their house rn

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Anonymous #15 18h

Changing subject. I’m obviously talking about America. Don’t know why you’re bringing up countries we have nothing to do with

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I know that. The point I was making is that the “oppression” of men is incomparable to what women experience. Women calling you trash or evil isn’t even near the same level as things like femicide.

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Anonymous #15 18h

So why are we comparing bad things on which is worse though why don’t we just be good people

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Anonymous #15 18h

Yes. We can’t do anything about Afghanistan but we can change America. Why don’t we focus on ending sexism in America first.

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Anonymous #24 18h

Even in America, things like sex trafficking, 98% of rapes are committed by men and 90% of rape victims are women, etc. Women calling you trash is not the same as these worldwide issues. You are too sensitive.

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Anonymous #15 17h

Notice how we arnt downvoting your comments, but your downvoting our comments? Its because we’re open to other peoples views while women statistically are not

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Anonymous #24 17h

And you complain that I changed the subject? Lmfao. Your argument and evidence for this “statistic” is that I downvoted your comment? Do you hear yourself? You seem like the kind of guy that complains about women generalizing men. Talk about generalizations, huh?

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Anonymous #15 17h

I wouldn’t say upset. More like disappointed. And I don’t get disappointed in statistics, only generalizations. Theres a huge difference. I did the study myself on my highschool. Men are less likely to care about what someone thinks about them, and women are less likely to care about what someone thinks pertaining to political or gender subjects

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Anonymous #24 17h

You didn’t backup your argument. That’s why I think this conversation is irrelevant. If you wish to be understood, you should give further explanation. When you asked to talk about America, I did as you wish, then you changed the topic to my downvotes. Maybe, your “study” received those results because you are someone who provokes others to ignore you by ignoring them first. Just a thought.

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Anonymous yamazo07 17h

I call my gf a bitch all the time 🤷‍♂️ she likes it. Being degraded turns her on

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Anonymous #24 17h

Free her

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Anonymous #15 17h

I know upvotes will make you feel better, but as this is a female only community, and given the statistic, it’s highly biased.

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Anonymous #15 17h

Why? Just because she likes something that you don’t?

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Anonymous #15 17h

She literally told me to call her a whore

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Anonymous #24 17h

Bro i also like to be degraded take a joke

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Anonymous #24 17h

If people come to an agreement with those kinds of things, I get that- THAT is understandable. This guy has done plenty of other shitty things towards her(such as laughing at her late father’s funeral while her mother was sobbing), and it’s clear he says it in a way to talk down on her(in a bad way, if that makes sense?). I already don’t really like the guy because of the other stuff he’s done, and he kinda keeps proving my point by calling her names. Sorry for the misunderstanding!

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Anonymous #15 17h

You never know who’s joking and who’s not. A lot of women will call you an incel and a misogynist if you tell them things that you’re girlfriend likes but that they don’t. Like there was a post that says only he’s means yes and everything else means no. But when my gf says maybe she means yes cuz she says it in a sexual way. The post says maybe also means no. But that isn’t the case every time

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Anonymous #15 17h

And they called me a bigot, a misogynist, a rapist. Like come on. Not everyone likes the same things

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Anonymous #24 17h

No that’s fine, but don’t treat every woman the same. Men find out some girls like to be degraded and start slapping girls in bed without consent. Thats where I have a problem. I was just fcking with you.

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Anonymous #24 17h

This is a cope, your arguments just sucked bro

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Anonymous #15 17h

Again, statistics, you’re just adding to it. Can’t make this shit up

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Anonymous #24 17h

Confirmation bias

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Anonymous #15 17h

Gender bias

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 17h

Deadass the only thing a woman can say when a man disagrees with them or has a different opinion. The only thing they can do is call them an incel, a misogynist, or a rapist. Only words women know apparently

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Anonymous #10 17h

Bc where tf are men ACTUALLY being oppressed for being MEN and not for their skin tone or sexual orientation. I’ll answer for you, NO WHERE

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Anonymous #24 17h

not the only words we know, just the only things you ever seem to be.

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Anonymous #26 17h

America. This community is literally prood

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Anonymous #14 17h

Just proved my point

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Anonymous #24 16h

if so many women are calling you a misogynist, rapist, or incel that it’s a genuine problem, then maybe you’re the issue lmao. the fact you’re intentionally invading a woman’s space just to refuse to listen to us is telling.

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Anonymous #14 16h

So there’s this app called instagram. And unfortunately most of the people on instagram are sexist women. So a man will comment and then the women say the stuff that i mentioned

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Anonymous #24 16h

you made this vast generalization of women because you saw some people being mean on Instagram?

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gasp

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Anonymous #24 16h

Cool, this isn’t Instagram though

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Anonymous #3 16h

No chicks is worse!!!! Just say women!!!😭😭😭

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Nor do I

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Anonymous #24 15h

y’all keep making the same comments then refuse to address people who respond 💀

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Anonymous #14 15h

Y’all keep saying the same thing without listening 💀men in America are oppressed by women and we are pushing back. We’re tired of ts

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Anonymous #24 15h

Men are so oppressed 💔💔

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Anonymous #15 15h

Wow that really disproves what I said, good job

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Anonymous #21 15h

She is a woman, female is an adjective.

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Anonymous #24 15h

kind of hard to disprove delusions… especially when your only source people being mean to you online. you’re either trolling or need a therapist 💀

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Anonymous #24 15h

Fight fire with fire, no reason to push back on ME when I’m not doing anything wrong. Push back against the actual misogynistic ones. The ones who actually hate women, not the ones who just disagree with you

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Anonymous #30 14h

Chicks is kinda fire 🔥

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Anonymous #10 14h

Fr bruh

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Anonymous #10 14h

Well they have to sign up to potentially die in war simply bc they’re men, they lose in custody battles more often, and alimony laws are unfair to women and men. Patriarchy benefits rich men, not all men

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Anonymous #15 14h

Did you have to sign up for the draft miss? No, but men, and trans women have to sign up to potentially die in war or else the Government will arrest them. But yeah, men ToTaLly aren’t oppressed

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Anonymous #35 13h

It’s been said several times that we don’t care if it’s used in a medical setting, and I’m assuming from context that the military uses it in a similar way. We don’t care if we’re called females in those cases we just don’t want men calling us that when they’re clearly being derogatory and objectifying. Not that hard of a concept when you actually listen to what women say.

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Anonymous #24 13h

If ya meant proof it’s spelled with an F and if you did mean prude you’re still wrong

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Anonymous #34 12h

ok

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Anonymous #34 12h

Facts. I joined to learn more about the female mind and have convos and talking points for my gf but every single post is I hate men, men suck, and I have a period. Nothing about romance, shopping, fashion, drama, nails, love island, Disney movies etc… How are the girls on here so different then the ones I talk to irl

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Anonymous #37 12h

i also eat hot chip and lie

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Anonymous #35 12h

lolol noted

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Anonymous OP 12h

Baby literally scroll for 5 secs. It’s all how much yall hate men

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Anonymous #37 12h

ok

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Anonymous #34 12h

you have a very twisted mindset on femininity and feminism

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Anonymous #2 12h

Fym

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Anonymous #24 12h

i’m not even talking to u?

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Anonymous #2 12h

That’s not how public comments work honey

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Anonymous #24 12h

well i literally said “you” meaning i was directly talking to one person but what i meant is that saying “i joined this group to talk about (insert stereotypical topics) and people are talking about (insert progressive conversation on misogyny)” is just a really clouded way to view being a woman and expressing it. part of being a women is facing misogyny. whether you think so or not, all women face misogyny in their life. i just think it’s kinda regressive to shut down those conversations.

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Anonymous #2 12h

Who’s shutting down your conversations

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Anonymous #37 12h

WOMEN

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Anonymous #24 12h

men.

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Anonymous #2 12h

Name one

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Anonymous #24 12h

sure, easy. donald trump shut down a female reporter and called her a pig.

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Anonymous #2 12h

Ok well I don’t think anyone here supports trump so idk why ur mad at the men in the comments. And, as a woman would put this, that’s generalisation

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Anonymous #2 12h

Well, it was funny af and only because she wouldn’t ask stfu asking stupid questions

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Anonymous #24 12h

Bruh I think she just got banned 💀

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Anonymous #38 11h

Thank you!

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Anonymous #39 10h

Because it’s not that deep bro if you started calling men you see “males” I promise you nobody’s gonna gaf I mean you guys act like they’re saying slurs

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Anonymous #10 10h

They are degrading us and by the way you responded I can tell your a man who uses it.

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Anonymous #39 10h

I don’t use it bro cause I feel weird about calling women females too, but to say they’re misogynistic over that is a bit crazy. I mean I’ve accidently said female a few times in my life though but I wasn’t sitting there saying “let me dehumanize this creature hehe”. It’s just NOT that deep not everyone who says female is trying to degrade you

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Anonymous #2 10h

if ur gonna be sexist than you should be okay with all sexism

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Anonymous #10 9h

Baby the only thing anyone calling u is a prick goodbye (and this space isn’t for you)

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Nope you dont understand how grammar works. Referring to us using gender-based words such as “women” and “girl” actively acknowledge the identity we present ourselves. Essentially its more respectful because of that acknowledgement. Think of a scenario where someone mockingly calls you a “little girl” despite you being a grown woman. thats someone purposefully not acknowledging your age and status. Using the term “female” is similar except it reduces you to your sex and ignores identity.

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Anonymous #44 9h

You call me a prick and I’ll call you a female, fair trade

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Anonymous #37 9h

Baby maybe turn on the news

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Anonymous #34 9h

Correct patriarchy hurts EVERYONE but most men struggle to see it as anything but a loss of power when feminism is brought up.

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Anonymous #10 9h

Damn girl since u staying on this yik yak I guess u a female too 😭

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Anonymous #44 9h

I didn’t know yikyak groups determine what gender you are

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Anonymous #10 9h

Ohhhh so you just routinely ignore social cues then. With the whole being in a space for a certain identity that doesn’t match your own. And the refusal to accept “hey, this group doesn’t like me using a term I think is fine because it’s hurtful to them. Don’t care.” Do you also go in other places set aside for specific identities? Like female restrooms, gay clubs, and/or veteran bars?

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Girl u fast af!! Intelligence is chasing u buy u faster!!

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Anonymous #44 9h

So you guys just want to spread a hateful rhetoric around men and have no consequence? That’s all it sounds like

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Wdym “why does it matter what men call us” uh obviously I want to be treated with respect? Clearly you dont care about being respected and thats all fine and dandy for you, but you 100% cannot speak for the rest of us. Sure, there are forced gender roles since society has been built off of them, but its the thought that matters the most. Its the way men THINK about us that dictates our actions and feelings toward them.

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Anonymous #10 9h

What are you trying to say here again? What hateful rhetoric are we spreading other than “men consistently use a word that’s degrading to women, and even if they don’t realize or mean to, they ignore women who speak out about it for whatever reasons they have.”

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Girl stand up

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Anonymous #33 9h

I’m a big fan of calling women chicks and men dudes

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Anonymous #30 9h

What about babydoll

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Anonymous #37 9h

These words are nicknames and arent really applicable to the whole “female vs women” argument, Id say. Nicknames are just whatever. the only men who use those (nick) names in common social situations are old ass men who probably dont care about this type of stuff.

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Anonymous #4 9h

Yeah 100% agree

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Anonymous #44 9h

I’m talking about other posts in this case since we’re talking about me being in this group

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Anonymous #10 8h

Damn..if you don’t want to see a bunch of women complain about men…maybe don’t be in a space that’s specifically for women..where women complain about men to other women and not to men’s faces because it’s not intended for their eyes…prolly see less of it that way

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Anonymous #50 2h

no you’re fine, i don’t really understand the whole problem unless it’s used offensively or condescendingly but pretty much any word said those ways aren’t good

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Anonymous #24 1h

you cant say this when youre saying men in america are oppressed dumbass. youre completely dismissing the insane amounts of misogyny that take place every day in america so complain about people justifiably talking shit about men. not all men but ALWAYS a man. you’re ignorant and narcissistic to think otherwise.

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Anonymous #24 1h

and thats all you have to say about real statistics? you dont want to face facts. all you care about is making yourself look as hated as possible. men arent more aware of these things, you’re only further proving the point everyone else in this thread is making. you’re being downvoted because you’re loud and wrong, not because you’re a man.

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Anonymous #10 1h

delete this 😭😭😭😭😭

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Anonymous #24 59m

only thing men can do when women criticize them is cry wolf or resort to violence 😭

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Anonymous #46 27m

Why

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