Girl Talk on Sidechat | i just checked my weight for the first time in years & it’s so much higher than i thought and now im trying not to have a meltdown bc of it. i wish i didn’t hate myself this much

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Girl Talk 9w

i just checked my weight for the first time in years & it’s so much higher than i thought and now im trying not to have a meltdown bc of it. i wish i didn’t hate myself this much

Anonymous 9w

Maybe try thinking about it this way? If you haven’t checked it in years chances are you likely haven’t been having anything influential happening due to your weight, like health issues. I have the same problem but thinking about it logically sometimes helps me feel less self-deprecating since at the end of the day, our bodies are just machines that we use to function. If your machine is functioning how it should, then who cares about what weight you ‘should’ be?

Anonymous 9w

Stop being a fatass

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Anonymous

#1 9w

Yes this !! It’s normal to gain weight as you get older it’s a part of life for most people it doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you your body just changes over time

Anonymous

#1 9w

it’s difficult because i really don’t want to fall back into ED behavior, but i also know for a fact that i don’t take care of my body the way i should - meaning taking care of it in a way where ill be strong and healthy when im old. finding the balance is so hard especially when i see others complain about “getting fat” and then say a number 60 pounds below my weight. feels like a battle i’ll never win i fear

Anonymous

OP 9w

Hey, as a girl who struggles with this often, I relate to the issue of people complaining about getting fat when you’re heavier than them. It really does feel like an uphill battle, but what might also help is realizing that body dysmorphia is a real thing. While people may think they’re fat at one weight, they don’t see others as fat when they’re above the weight they consider for themselves too fat. Again, as someone who struggles with this too, it doesn’t fix everything sadly

Anonymous

#1 9w

yeah it’s a nightmare. can’t trust yourself or others to accurately see your body. i work in mental health and ive done so much work on my own therapy & im trying to get better. hopefully this lapse in judgement doesn’t set me super far back

Anonymous

#3 9w

i’m trying

Anonymous

OP 9w

Please DO NOT listen to this anon, they don’t even know what you look like or what you weigh 😭😭 just an asshole being an asshole

Anonymous

#1 9w

yeahhh i don’t take much value in anon hate 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫