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anyone else here have vaginismus ? it’s lowkey affecting my mental health like bad
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Anonymous 4w

Someone made a post about it earlier today so I’ll post my comment in here too- treatment and reversing it is possible, I’m proof of it. I’ve had sex with it, and after it. I understand how shitty it feels to have it, I promise you you’re not broken or defective for it. 🫂 There does not have to be a direct cause for it to happen either, my friend just naturally has it

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Anonymous 4w

Same here its the worst. Trying to accept i'll never have sex in my life

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Anonymous 4w

Me. BUT dilators and treatments were life changing. Look into if you haven’t already. Things aren’t perfect but they are bearable now.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

You can!! And you will!! I highly recommend going to a dr about it as intimidating as it is

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Anonymous replying to -> bunniee 4w

I also have vulvodynia which is also worse i have pain everytime i try inster things even a small thing like a finger. I dont get horny or turned on anymore because of it

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Anonymous replying to -> bunniee 4w

Also wanna tweak what I said- me having sex “with it” ≠ entirely enjoyable/ normal… a lot of awkward moments like “you’re literally forcing me out”/ “I can’t physically get it in”, followed by painful sex. So I shouldn’t have worded it like that and my experience “trying” to force it without treatment was not good/helpful/normal

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I’m so sorry I can’t imagine how uncomfortable that is :( have you talked to a dr?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Vulvodynia as well

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