Anonymous #1 2w

Bro idk my best friend of 7 years has been mad distant, saying that she’s just been living a boring life where she just goes to work & school so that’s why she hasn’t been reaching out to me much (we long distance) and that shes been distant w her other friends and it just hurts cuz theres someone ik thats in her life that she wouldn’t ever distance herself from

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Anonymous OP 2w

Honestly long distance can be hard. It can be hard to do things together when you’re far

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Anonymous #1 2w

Everything was fine even when i studied abroad in England for 4 months we have been long distance for 3 years and I still used to tell her everything, then she stopped reaching out, and I felt like I barely knew her, so I stopped telling her everything

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Anonymous #2 2w

Im so sorry about the breakup, im glad u were able to maintain ur friendships tho, like everyone should be anyways regardless of whether the relationship ends or is successful

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Anonymous OP 2w

yeah one sent money so i can buy some food and one brought over food and took me to a park to talk. my girls are so amazing i was disappointed in him sometimes anyways so😭

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Anonymous #3 2w

I just miss my best friend i was happy for her the first 16 months of the relationship like nothing changed btwn us but like recently we dont call or text anymore and she would call him when we would hangout even tho they see each other 10 times more then we do i just feel like every time we hang out theres someone she would rather be with

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Anonymous #2 2w

Thats great, good knowing you have such great support, and also my dms r open as well if u need any help

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Anonymous OP 2w

i understand how u may feel :( im sorry this is happening to you and unfortunately people grow apart. my cousin thats my age was my bestfriend since we were toddlers and now we barely talk. im sure if u communicate to her she will understand

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Anonymous #3 2w

I feel like if this was happening w a partner everyone would understand but when i say theres been a huge shift i wasnt ready for in a long term friendship everyone says that this is how friendships go and no one talks abt how hard that could be, this hurts more then anything any guy has ever done to me

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Anonymous #4 2w

Thank youuuu 🫶🫶 feeling like the stuffed animal that gets shoved in the closet rn

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