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ive been with my bf for two years and i feel like there’s a maturity and interest gap that is becoming more prominent
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Anonymous 9w

sometimes relationships go through phases, talk to him ab it and communicate

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Anonymous 9w

Age diff is?

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Anonymous 9w

don't let the gap get too big without deciding if u need to leave

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

im like 5 months older than him

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

ur right and i want to have a convo with him about it … i just dont know how it’ll go, i dont want to change him as a person obviously i love him but for ex we were at a restaurant that has food from around the world and i started talking about how thats super interesting and all he had to say was “ya its run by college kids” bc i guess he was annoyed by the staff who were just chilling out with their friends (we were the only table)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

i say well yeah the main demographic of people working in restaurants are teens/college people and the convo died from there, he noticed i deflated and asked me what was wrong. i said i feel like our interests are mismatched sometimes and he said “well i said the truth so” … ? like what am i supposed to say?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

if u do bring it up be prepared for there to probably not be a solution

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

u rite

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

honey no way

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

wat dat mean

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Honestly that’s not bad. My sister is dating a guy that is 1 yr younger than her it’s fine

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

no i don’t mind the age gap at all it’s really nothing tbh but in terms of conversation and interests it shows up sometimes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

I think that’s more about the differences between you guys than the age

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

ya that’s what i said in the post

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

that's why op said it was a maturity and interest gap😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

I am so stupid idk why I thought the thing was age diff im so sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

it’s ok 😘

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