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TW: SA to anyone who has dealt with or dealing with trauma from any form of SA, are you able to enjoy getting intimate without getting triggered? It has been so hard for me and I have terrible panic attacks that come out of nowhere
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Anonymous 3w

mine had a sort of delayed effect (sa happened when i was a child, started having sex at 19). i’m 23 now and looking into therapy bc i haven’t been able to have a good relationship with sex at all for the last year and a half :( it’s hard and i’m sorry you’re also going through it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I’m sorry you went through that as well, i think what angers me the most is the fact that another person caused this and took away something that people should be able to have a positive relationship with and now because of that person even tho i love my bf very much and trust him fully, i have to deal with getting triggered by the smallest things even if i initiate the intimacy. It’s just so unfair and draining, ya know?:(

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