
Good fucking luck. I got one when I turned 21 a few months ago and Im not sexually active and havent been since I was 18….. it hurt really fucking bad. My voice was choking up afterwards like idk how to explain it- I couldnt talk😭 I dont put anything up there ever so if your like me, you seriously need to mentally prepare
okay yeah she told me that we dont need to get it done at 21 if not sexually active ever, but that eventually youd need it done. Its not like a mandatory rule I guess. My friends who are virgins are pushing it off because they can afford to :P not saying its the absolute right thing to do but papsmears can definitely be more traumatic for people like myself and my friends who are on the spectrum😭Some said theyd rather go their whole life without getting it done. its THAT serious