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How the heck do men ghost someone without feeling like a bad person? I’m suddenly getting messages from a kind of toxic friend who I stopped talking to and I’m starting to feel really anxious and guilty for not responding
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Anonymous 2w

it’s cause they always think they are right and do no wrong

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Anonymous 2w

and then paint you to be the crazy one yet they are psychologically mindfucking you with silence

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Anonymous 2w

I don’t know why he’s thinking about me lately when we haven’t spoken in months. I feel like him ignoring me for days on end and me putting in all the effort before made it clear he didn’t care that much about our friendship then

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Anonymous 2w

It’s quite easy to mute people and ignore them. I basically always live on do not disturb with important people bypassing it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

he prob realized he lost smth good or has no other bitches to bother

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Honestly, I’ve never been on this end of things and I’m hating it so much. It’s insane to me to think there are f boys out there who do this on the regular

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

yeah 🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

i mean though if you think it might help you can bluntly ask him to stop texting you, and if he doesn’t block him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

That would kind of make sense that he misses the attention. I honestly feel like there has to be other girls he could talk to cause in the time I knew him he was always hooking up with a Fwb. I don’t know why he’s reaching out almost a year later after he’s moved like 400 miles away

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I don’t know honestly. I never wanted to set this up as “I want you completely cut off from my life”, I’m fine with us being friends on social media. Still I don’t think I can handle being close friends with him again and I feel like he has to be aware of how some of the ways he treated me really hurt me. I feel like if I tell him to stop texting me I’d have to explain why he hurt me and I think that might send me into a tailspin

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

though the thing is i think explaining yourself would not do you any good cause he seems to act like everything is fine despite him hurting you and I don’t think he would listen or absorb your complaints, and rather deflect them🥲I don’t think you need to explain yourself gorl, you knowing he hurt you and didn’t see your worth is enough justification.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

You’re right, thank you. I think I’m just gonna ignore it for now and come back to it later when I don’t feel so panicked about it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

that sounds like a good plan

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