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To everyone that told me it was a bad idea to have a 44 year old boyfriend…just because you were right doesn’t mean I’m stupid. IT COULD HAPPEN TO YOU 🫵🏽
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Anonymous 20h

are u stupid? probably not. was that a beyond idiotic thing to do, especially with so many people advising you other wise? undoubtedly

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Anonymous 20h

no it literally couldn’t bc i’d never date a 44 year old 😭 don’t act like everyone would make the same choices as you bc you realized how dumb they are now lol

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Anonymous 19h

It couldn’t unless I’m in my 40s/late 30s myself 😭 OP how old are you???

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Anonymous 18h

As someone that dated a 31 year old man at 20 years old…….. you’re insane for this but I get the joking tone here.

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Anonymous 20h

some shit i’d do tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

Never say never babes, you never know where life takes you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

except i do know bc i have standards and one of them is not dating a 44 year old lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18h

Everyone thinks it’s a good idea until they learn their lesson the hard way and yk what sometimes that’s really just what ppl need anyway

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

19

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

Ohhh you were like a victim 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1h

No it’s not that deep

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1h

Yes it is, 44 and 19 is predatory and borderline a crime. How old were you when you got together?? I’m not saying this to make fun of you,I’m genuinely concerned no one stepped in to stop this

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1h

I was 18 but we met when I was 18, it’s not like he was plotting on me when I was a minor

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1h

Yeah but he was 43 and met an 18 y/o and decided to pounce. If he met you sooner he would’ve pounced if there weren’t laws in place. I know it can be hard to come to terms with the fact you were a victim in a situation but you were. Even if nothing happened, even if you broke up before anything could, you were a victim. I’m the same age as you and my mom isn’t even 44 yet and I still couldn’t imagine any of her friends seeing me as anything but a baby.

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