Anonymous #2 17h

girl yes, men commit more murders. i'm not disputing that 😭 but that's not the only way to hurt someone. manipulation, emotional abuse, and social sabotage exist too. my point is that being a woman doesn't automatically make someone a good person 💀

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Anonymous OP 17h

well ya women can be evil too but i’m just saying the whole “gender war” thing makes sense when u consider the shit men do in society it’s hard not to hate them as a group

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Anonymous #6 15h

Yeah many times recently ppl on here have been joking ab woman dv or been saying stuff like its always a man and when i pipe up as a lesbian victim its always "making it about myself" even when im just trying to have solidarity with straight victims :/

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coulda sworn they were everywhere in this community

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Anonymous #9 15h

exactly like I’m a man hater trust. But women can be just as bad as men. I lived it

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Anonymous #9 15h

I absolutely hate when one of us brings up what we experienced and people say “omg you’re making it abt yourself” like wtf

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bruh stfu you’re a dumbass

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this is so stupid it’s almost not worth responding too

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- someone who has 0 conception of how the world works

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Yes

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Yes with few exceptions lol 13/50

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Anonymous #17 14h

there’s a permanent way to make sure you never have to see anyone again. you should do everyone a favor and try it out

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Anonymous #20 13h

This is giving man in the boldest way

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Anonymous #7 13h

Except I’m a 20 yr old woman lol

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Anonymous #20 13h

Some women are misandrists, some are Demi. So those people who you may think are feminists, may in fact not be.

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Anonymous #20 13h

I see you girlie, it genuinely sucks to see the stuff women our age be putting out about men. be careful the downvote brigade might get you.

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Anonymous OP 13h

You’ve a real girls girl 🫶 I just hope more people come to think more critically instead of just hoping on the man hating train trend

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Anonymous #20 13h

I know the internet can be an echo chamber, but this community is just brutal on the boys sometimes and it doesn't make any sense to me. do they not have dads? brothers? male friends or role models? like the real world is not as bad as they make it out to be. I have positive interactions with men and women throughout my day and it's not as bad as everybody makes it out to be. I have very isolated negative interactions with men and women, but they're rare and isolated and I tend to forget about them rather quickly.

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Anonymous OP 13h

You are so right. I know so many guys in my life that are so upstanding and would never disrespect a women. But a also know a few that are unfortunately people I’d rather stay away from. Yet, the exact same thing can be said for women. Cause we are all just people. Some good, some bad.

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Anonymous #20 13h

i think the bad HEAVILY ways towards men though unfortunately

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Anonymous #20 12h

girl i genuinely appreciate your perspective 🫶 and i honestly think there's a MUCH bigger conversation we need to be having about how society treats BOTH men and women. yes, men commit more violent crimes. nobody is disputing that. but what people seem to forget is that men are also disproportionately the VICTIMS of serious violence. according to UNODC and UN Women, approximately 80% of homicide victims worldwide in 2024 were men. and according to the US Bureau of Justice Statistics, about 57% of nonfatal violent incidents involving male offenders in 2024 had male victims. so clearly, male violence isn't exclusively, or even predominantly, directed at women across every category of violence.

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Anonymous #20 12h

now obviously women face disproportionate risks in domestic and sexual violence, and those experiences deserve to be taken seriously. i'm absolutely not dismissing that. but i think we also need to examine how society conditions men. from childhood, boys hear things like "man up," "stop crying," "don't be weak," and "stand up for yourself." masculinity gets associated with toughness, dominance, and sometimes aggression.

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Anonymous #12 12h

There’s something called a joke have you never had black friends?

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Anonymous #17 12h

Black friends love these jokes I recommend since they’re the ones always asking if you hate black people 😭😂

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Anonymous #20 12h

just like women face enormous societal pressure surrounding their bodies, appearance, and femininity, men face their own expectations about what it means to be a "real man." and those expectations can hurt EVERYONE. none of that excuses violent behavior. perpetrators should absolutely be held accountable. but maybe instead of turning this into men vs. women, we should be asking why our society continues reinforcing harmful expectations in the first place. because at the end of the day, men aren't just perpetrators in these statistics. they're victims too. and i genuinely believe we can advocate for women's safety while ALSO recognizing the struggles men face.

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Anonymous #20 12h

we don't have to tear down one gender to support the other. ❤️

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Anonymous #17 12h

as a black person who also has black friends, there’s nothing funny about what you said. you are an ignorant and disgusting piece of shit

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Anonymous #12 12h

People be making up anything and everything these days

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Anonymous #17 12h

What if I came clean and told you I’m black am I still disgusting or can I not make jokes about my own race?

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Anonymous #17 12h

even if that was true, it literally changes nothing. what you said was disgusting

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Anonymous #12 10h

Why is it ok to generalise one group but not another?

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Anonymous #5 10h

you brought race into it?

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Anonymous #23 9h

LITERALLY thank you #6, a voice of sanity!!!! Let’s not act dumb.

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Statistics are fine until they get applied to race 🤣🤣

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Anonymous #23 9h

I mean yes but tbf this post wasn’t about that, it’s about how dating women instead of men won’t magically solve your dating life problems bc women can still be toxic

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Anonymous #23 9h

Multiple women are involved in sex trafficking especially within the government, there is quite literally a video of Hilary Clinton sexually assaulting, torturing and wearing the face of a child

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Anonymous #31 9h

Kinda slipped my mind when I was writing my reply but ghislaine maxwell too

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Anonymous #4 9h

no literally the comments took this the wrong way so badly 😭 no one was saying that men arent shitty ppl the op was just saying that women aint all that too the literacy crisis is real and cannot be ignored 💔

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Anonymous #2 8h

u dumb asf

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Also notice that literally nobody has made an actual point against this, just insults. Someone actually explain why using the statistics against men is okay but not against races.

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Anonymous #3 8h

it’s so crucial to surround yourself with different types of people so u can see how many are stupid as well, that’s why our country is going to shit

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Anonymous blueberryjpg 7h

THIS ‼️‼️‼️

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Anonymous #7 7h

#7 you are spitting facts.

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Anonymous #2 7h

Abortion*

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Anonymous #4 7h

Real feminists also argue FOR women and not AGAINST men. They support women but don’t hate men.

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Anonymous #1 40m

Omg do not talk to me about the literacy crisis. Op literally said “let’s stop the constant gender wars” which is a phrase almost EXCLUSIVELY used to reprimand women for criticizing men in a social context. Their phrasing delivers the message that women are overreacting for seeing men the way they do, which they’re not 😐

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