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i think my ex boyfriend is talking to a new girl…. he was supposed to come to my sorority formal in december. what do i do??
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Anonymous 16h

nothing because he's your ex?

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Anonymous 16h

Hey OP I know you probably feel a little ganged up on and like we don’t get it or don’t care, but honestly we just don’t want you to waste as much time on this as we have before. It’s a totally miserable position to be in but seriously give it just A year and you’ll be looking back and laughing at yourself too and thanking God you didn’t spend another second pining over a man that didn’t care as much as you did. Pinkie promise it’ll be okay girl💕

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

we were actively talking and he agreed to go to my formal. i’m not sure whether or not he’s talking to a new girl… just a feeling

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

just find someone else 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

wait I'm confused. did he agree to go with you? like as your date? before or after you broke up?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

after, we broke up like 8 months ago because he’s going to a diff college but he agreed to come visit. i’m scared he’s talking to someone new tho, we talk everyday but recently it’s been way less

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

😨 oh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

yeah girl i think u might just have to let bro go and find someone else

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

ik… girl i’m dying here

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

He may have said yes to be nice, but he’s not obligated to you anymore and he likely won’t stop dating other people just because he’s still friendly to you. You have to move on from him I’m sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16h

he’s like the loml 💔💔

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

girl.... you broke up for a reason

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

because we were going to diff colleges 💔💔💔

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

okay if y'all broke up cuz of distance than you're both weak. if he's the loyl, then distance should never have been the reason to break up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

I say this wholeheartedly with so so much empathy bc I was there when I was a freshman, but I’m now 24 and engaged to the loml and every time I look back and laugh and say I can’t believe how much time I spent hung up on him and trying to make it work. You have SOOOO much better coming fr!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

i mean part of that is also learning to navigate college without him 🤷‍♀️ i know its hard and it hurts but that was ur whole reasoning for breaking up right? cause yall werent going to be able to be together that frequently and u didnt want the relationship to hold back either of yalls college experiences right? 🫪🙏 so as painful as it is, part of that is learning to navigate events like this without him, even if yall still talk regularly

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Anonymous replying to -> hooters 16h

as someone who tried to do what you did but wasnt strong enough to go through with it, i know how hard it is to be in a long distance relationship with someone especially when ur going to xlasses and starting ur life 🫪🙏 as painful as it is, these moments without him will teach u soo much about urself and what ur capable of doing on ur own 🙏 learning to be ur own person can be hard but its super rewarding in the long run and who knows, maybe after he might still be there waiting for you and yall

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Anonymous replying to -> hooters 16h

will be able to share the new yous to eachother and learn a new side of eachother that yall didnt see before

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15h

This exactly. It sucks and hurts but you gotta let it scab over and heal. It’ll be okay

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