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This might sound stupid but I’m a 21 year old virgin, never had a bf and ik I shouldn’t care about a relationship or a man and focus on myself, but I can’t wait to be in love. Like I want romance,flirting,tension, knowing I’m someone’s person. Idk
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Anonymous 5w

That’s so valid! It’s totally normal to want to be in a relationship with someone and look forward to that. Regarding the “I shouldn’t care about a relationship or a man and focus on myself” I find that to be a bit binary and restrictive. I personally would say that you should be comfortable being single even when looking forward to a relationship.

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Anonymous 5w

Same situation! I am 22 and never been in a relationship. But I think is being patient will pay off!!

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Anonymous 5w

It will happen!! Give it time!! Something amazing coming your way for sure

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Anonymous 5w

yesss this is me too like i want the connection and touch so bad

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Anonymous 5w

Reading this at 22 in the same situation. The dating apps are hell and every time I think I’ve got a good conversation going they go and make it weird (I’m very open about the fact that I’m asexual and they still try to sext and I do not know how to pivot from there)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

It’s so sad and disheartening when I’m having an amazing conversation with a guy and he makes it weird by being horny and not having his urges in check

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

No because I’m genuinely so awkward and I have so much anxiety and I was so proud of myself for being able to keep up like 4 days of talking and then he just had to hit me with “I’m getting all red and warm everywhere” and I could only redirect shit so many times 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

The redirecting is so reeaaalllllll 😭 like omggggggg

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