Anonymous #1 1d

LITERALLY i looked over and saw the most mid man on earth and i was like… this is what you think i was staring at??

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Anonymous OP 1d

I had a (former) friend who was like that, convinced that everyone wanted her man, hated him going anywhere without her, whole time dude was just-

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Anonymous #1 1d

my whole thing is if you can’t handle going out in public with your man where other people may look at him then don’t go out?? and if you think your bf is so hot why would you be mad if other people think so too anyways

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Anonymous OP 1d

I think it’s a combination of lack of trust and low self esteem/insecurity. Maybe they don’t see the relationship as stable or their partner as loyal so they perceive everything as a threat 🤔

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Anonymous #1 1d

Literally it was always at school dances too where I’d be dancing with my friends, and we’d all be close together so suddenly she thinks I want her ugly ass boyfriend and his hairy lip….I don’t even know why YOU want him bro.

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Anonymous #1 1d

if I was the man in that relationship I’d break tf up 😭 that sounds so controlling

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Anonymous #3 23h

To be fair, he was pretty toxic. He would tell her about all the supposedly more attractive women who approach him just to make her feel insecure. She wasn’t a conventionally attractive girl and he would act like he was doing her a huge favor being with her, just rubbing it in her face. He would also talk about all the better looking women he’d previously slept with (including her old friends) and how he “gave up being a slut for her” I didn’t believe it cuz he was ugly but she sure did 🙄

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Anonymous #1 23h

OMG??? why was he evil asf 😭😭

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Anonymous #1 23h

That was one of the reasons I stopped being friends with her. I’m pretty sure he was cheating on her or at least purposefully lowering her self esteem but she put him on a pedestal. She refused to see how he was manipulative and got angry at her girl friends for trying to tell her. She was a serious pickme (not as just an insult, like a real pickme girl) male attention was her life blood and she was constantly jealous of our one friend with blonde hair (she also ended up being racist lol)

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Anonymous OP 22h

And he was so insufferable! He loved to mansplain and butt in our conversations with irrelevant takes. He had the “umm akshually 🤓” Reddit voice and no charisma whatsoever, but he somehow convinced her that he was the prize! He was literally her entire personality! She had no hobbies or interests outside of him

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