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Just sexted and he VERY EXPLICITLY talked me through 💦(we both knew the other was yanking or flicking it). We talk after wards and I say in passing that I’m a virgin. HE DIDNT KNOW even though I’ve told him that he was my first kiss??!Continue in comments
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Anonymous 1d

My parents are 12 years apart and they good so ur chilling

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Anonymous 1d

Teach me your ways sensai

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Anonymous 1d

He immediately asked if I was ok with what just happened and if I liked it. We then went on talking for ANOTHER 90 minutes!!

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Anonymous 1d

I tell him all my worries: about how I’m worried that he would think of me differently. About how I like him a lot but I’m still very nervous. And I told him that I’m excited for him to be my first, but I need him to be slow and gentle

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Anonymous 1d

AND WHAT HE SAYS LITERALLY IS STRAIGHT OUT OF THE PERFECT PARTNER MANUAL

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Anonymous 1d

He tells me that he doesn’t think of me any differently and that he still loves me the same. He says that he had his suspicions but never really asked because he didn’t want to seem pushy. He also reassured me that he would be very careful; that he understands my anxiety and he’ll be aware of it

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Anonymous 1d

He said he really appreciated me telling him and being comfortable with him.

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Anonymous 1d

ALSO! I was flirting and said “you’ll have to show me some things 😅😉” and in response YOU KNOW WHAT HE SAID?? He said ❤️❤️“you just let yourself go”.❤️❤️❤️ BROOO !!!!! And when I said “so… you’re saying you’ll take care of me?” He SAID “but of course”

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Anonymous 1d

Genuinely… and hours before this convo you know what he tells me? He tells me that he wants me to always be honest and clear with him. “Always clear” HE EXPLICITLY TOLD ME THAT HE WANTS ME TO TELK HIM WHAT I WANT OR DONT WANT!!!!!!

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Anonymous 1d

The best part is this guy is older than me, substantially older. And I know he’s carful about that fact and LITERALLY everything we talked about today shot down all the concerns that people have about an older guy with a younger girl. (I’m 20 dw)

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Anonymous 1d

I think… I think I made it guys…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Out of curiosity, how old is this man?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

He’s 32! AND HONESTLY the most respectful, gentle, romantic, and loving man I have ever met. He a better man than my father

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Find yo self a Latino papi 🧎‍♀️‍➡️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Yessss! We love an older man 💅🏽

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

YESSSSSS. And trust me, every concern has run through my head, whether I liked it or not, and this guy just debunks all of them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

You may have bagged gold fr

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Dude I think I did l. And you want to know JUST ONE of the things I love about him? I can make him blush with a flirt or a compliment! LIKE GENUINELY TURN VISIBLY BRIGHT RED!! And he gets all giggly and fidgety and I love it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Me rn

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Work in a restaurant bro trust me! I was a server and he was one of the line cooks! Remember: 1-work in a restaurant. 2-go for an older guy. 3-make sure he’s Latino 🇲🇽

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