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Girl Talk 11w

virgosgroove

 Men are so stupid. I’m wearing wedding rings. So why get mad when I tell u im married. “Ur only saying that so u don’t have to give me ur number” IM WEARING EINGS AND HAVE MG HUSBAND’S INITIAL TATTED ON MY FINGER BE SERIOUS
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Anonymous 11w

I think there was a short trend of women wearing fake engagement rings to avoid men coming up to them and the men took that to mean all rings are just there as a deterrent. Idk sometimes it’s just men not taking no for an answer

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Anonymous 11w

Do you know why people do that? It's not a men-specific problem btw it's a human thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Literally what could be the reason other than just being entitled to a person’s info

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Anonymous replying to -> virgosgroove 11w

I hate to break it to you but the idea that you can rightfully own anything is one that belongs to patriarchal colonialism. That's why this shit always happens transactionally. Entitlement isn't just something that arises in immoral individuals or something. It's systemically engrained by EVERYONE who participates in coloniality.

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Anonymous replying to -> virgosgroove 11w

And if you think this is too woke or too sensitive or some other bullshit, it's because you aren't sensitive enough to the full spectrum of harm in our society.

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Anonymous replying to -> virgosgroove 11w

If you want "men" to stop doing shit that creates harm, stop accepting "men" (and all gender for that matter) as fixed categories. That's what makes the box and all of its harms so accessible. We can't reach gender sovereignty when you keep drilling gender so fucking hard.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Okay I understand all this but the point of my post is that men are too stupid & so pushy that they think someone saying “I’m in a relationship” is an invitation to keep trying instead of a request to stop flirting with someone.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Ohhhh my goodness ur a man trying to act like an overly woke woman fuck OFF

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Anonymous replying to -> virgosgroove 11w

Do you have nonbinary people as much as you hate men? Is it a hate everyone except cishet women moment or is it a hate cishet men only moment? Because I know people love to use the word "men" very loosely. Is it someone with a penis or is it someone raised and socialized in the role of a man? You can't have both.

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Anonymous replying to -> virgosgroove 11w

That's a problem OBVIOUSLY but I'm asking you to turn your attention to the cause. Downstream solutions don't fix upstream problems.

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Anonymous replying to -> virgosgroove 11w

I'm NONBINARY you asshole. You are no better than a man.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

I hate you, specifically. How about that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

idk if yikyak is the place for these conversations lol

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