Anonymous #2 5w

heavy on being petite!! i get sexualized like crazy, and aggressively too. i don’t get it

249

Anonymous #4 5w

Yes! I get sexualized for literally doing nothing and it’s so disgusting

131

Anonymous #3 5w

preach if only the men's chorus would hear over their bellowing idiocy

92

Anonymous #2 5w

online is the worst too. like the comments on my likes on hinge will be so… wrong

85

Anonymous #4 5w

I haven’t done dating apps yet but I’m scared to. Like the men knowing my face and then being sexual is gonna piss me off even more

83

Anonymous #2 5w

i don’t blame you, i’ve deleted that and other dating app multiple times bc of it

59

Anonymous #3 5w

and then they pit women against each other because now the competition is for male attention when in reality it should always be about loving who you are and uplifting your fellow woman

88

Anonymous #9 5w

fuckass bob = power so men are intimidated by you DUHHHHHH

90

Anonymous #6 5w

same girl

23

Anonymous #8 5w

Yes and they realize women have certain qualities about them that they “miss”

30

Anonymous #11 5w

PLSSSSS THIS HAS ME CACKLING I NEVER THOUGHT ABT IT THIS WAY

37

Anonymous #2 5w

CLOCK EM LAST SENTENCE YES

44

Anonymous #14 5w

Then they whine ab it like why nobody like me😭😭 I don’t like anyone but why don’t they like meee😭?

67

Anonymous #15 5w

That part! Omg

44

Anonymous #17 5w

statements like this just tell us that you are uneducated and ignorant

57

Anonymous #7 5w

This!!! I swear the day I dyed my hair back to brown I got way less dirty looks and men treat me more like a person than before

33

Anonymous #18 5w

it’s so stupid. like sorry im whimsical and experience joy and think i look cool with green hair 😭

25

Anonymous #17 5w

shut up

22

Anonymous #4 5w

it’s not the same

12

Anonymous #17 5w

the way no one said we don’t. men and women are guilty of such, but the conversation we are having now is men only treating women with respect when they find them desirable. if you’d like to have a conversation of women disrespecting men in such a way, start one. but don’t be in here causing shit just because you wanna act morally superior.

53

Anonymous #19 5w

What?

25

Anonymous #4 5w

They guys u wanted never spoke to, not just guys in general be honest.

-10

Anonymous #19 5w

Go ahead and pack it up for me bud

37

Anonymous #19 5w

excuse me?

30

Anonymous #19 5w

acting like you knew about my high school experience lmao

24

Anonymous #19 5w

you seem upset because you aren’t attractive

18

Anonymous #4 5w

You shut up

-9

Anonymous #4 5w

Not upset just stating the facts

-11

Anonymous #19 5w

What facts. You didn’t say anything

20

Anonymous #19 5w

that’s a “fact”? can you cite your sources

19

Anonymous #2 5w

Average men struggle more to get noticed and initiate relationships, while average women receive more attention and can be more selective in dating. Said what i said

-10

Anonymous #19 5w

you just admitted you’re unattractive

31

Anonymous #19 5w

perhaps these stats are true because certain men tend to treat women with disrespect so said women are forced to be more selective with relationships for the sake of their own safety and well being. food for thought.

18

Anonymous #19 5w

That isn’t the issue. The issue is that we get sexualized bc men treat women like objects

22

Anonymous #7 5w

Describe what unattractive men looks like and describe it in a woman please?

0

Anonymous #4 5w

If 80% of men is unattractive then i am unattractive then because i make up the 80%

1

Anonymous #19 5w

attractiveness is irrelevant, this isn’t about what is or is not attractive. you made the argument that on average, women are more selective & men have difficulty starting relationships. that has nothing to do with what is or is not attractive.

25

Anonymous #19 5w

okay cool ugly now shut up

10

Anonymous #19 5w

attractiveness is subjective and an extremely personal opinion.

6

Anonymous #7 5w

and that blanket statement is WRONGG

8

Anonymous #14 5w

like i don’t like you because you immediately sexualize me for my appearance ?? make it make sense

35

Anonymous #10 5w

they’re so upset about it for what

14

Anonymous #4 5w

Described whats attractive to u?

-4

Anonymous #19 5w

it doesn’t matter because what’s attractive to me won’t be attractive to someone else. why do you care so much about it? that’s not the point of this post at all

13

Anonymous #4 5w

OP is talking about how men don’t see women as humans until they are seen as conventionally attractive. it’s about mens actions. stop trying to make it about you whining

19

Anonymous #4 5w

what blanket statement? the part where i said attractiveness is irrelevant in this convo, or the part where i said women are forced to be selective in todays world because of the way certain men are. because both those things are true & neither are blanket statements.

6

Anonymous #7 5w

i was referring to the statement #19 made about women treating men. i’m agreeing with you

12

Anonymous #4 5w

my b, this thread gets confusing without usernames lol

10

Anonymous #22 5w

make me

15

Anonymous #4 5w

No u state i was ugly so i wanna know whats attractive to u, i promise u gonna states what 80% of men doesn’t have. Which made my point clear

1

Anonymous #23 5w

Thats soo not true

-17

Anonymous #19 5w

Then they haven’t done much to prove it wrong

27

Anonymous #19 5w

How is it not

18

Anonymous #23 5w

Y’all literally ignore most men texts, friend-zone them, lead them on, treat men like they are creeps because they don’t look a certain way something men can’t control by the way.

-21

Anonymous #19 5w

We don’t do that. That’s usually a response to them being creeps

44

Anonymous #24 5w

like no i don’t care that that girl said she doesn’t wanna have sex with you grow up

47

Anonymous #24 5w

Men have real issues and problems but they only bring them up when we’re talking about women’s issues

37

Anonymous #4 5w

Are we flirting right now?

-1

Anonymous #19 5w

This comment is exactly why I say this. Men weigh a lot of the male loneliness epidemic on lack of sexual attention from women but they constantly forget that *platonic* friendships also need to be built. That’s why people often believe women don’t struggle from this as much, because we don’t weigh our entire life’s happiness around if men find us attractive

48

Anonymous #13 5w

Because we bring them up y’all start to view us as weak, not wanted anymore

-11

Anonymous #19 5w

Why are you here? Leave.

35

Anonymous #19 5w

that’s not true dawg that’s what you’re told to believe about women

22

Anonymous #19 5w

No woman actually thinks that. It’s men who tell each other that. Get out of this mindset. Any woman who actually wants to be with you wants to see that “weakness” because it’s real.

27

Anonymous #19 5w

i LOVE when my bf confides in me about his feelings because i love him and i want him to know he can feel safe in me and doesn’t need to keep in inside. but other men keep telling men they’ll be seen as weak if they reach out

27

Anonymous #23 5w

Also worth noting that men don’t really do a good job of building a supportive community around EACH OTHER. They’re often focused on the fact that women don’t pay them attention but also don’t wanna do the work in helping out other men

27

Anonymous #1 5w

Crazy that you’re so stuck in your own world and narrative that you can’t step back and hear someone else’s viewpoint with telling them to leave. It’s honestly disgusting and makes you seem like a horrible person. Hope you aren’t like this in real life.

-10

Anonymous #19 5w

when i see a video on social media of a man talking about his feelings, the majority of comments from women are lifting him up while its comments from men telling him to stop being a pussy. this is what we mean when we say the patriarchy hurts men too

24

Anonymous #17 5w

Idgaf. This is a safe space for women. Leave.

22

Anonymous #23 5w

And what proof do u have of this or are you just saying your opinion and calling it fact?

-13

Anonymous #24 5w

What TikTok have you been on. Lmk

-7

Anonymous #17 5w

if you’re actually a woman this a really embarrassing take

21

Anonymous #25 5w

Thank u very much 👏🏾

-9

Anonymous #17 5w

idk exactly what you mean by what tiktok have i been on, but im referring to the multiple tiktoks ive seen of men talking about being raped or sa’d

15

Anonymous #7 5w

I can for sure say that. How can you reasonably complain about something like that knowing you do it just as much? This is why the world feels like that about us because we talk about everyone else but ourselves.

-6

Anonymous #17 5w

It is literally common research consensus that male friendships don’t cultivate a very supportive environment for other men. You can’t chalk the entire problem up to “women won’t pay attention to me”

29

Anonymous #23 5w

Well it’s well known that males have more solid relationships with each other than women do with each other. Males will (usually) tell you the truth. We lie to each other even we both know the opposite is true.

-14

Fym “today”? Are you also some sort of transphobic trash? God you’re insufferable

20

Anonymous #17 5w

N who said that?

25

Anonymous #17 5w

and what proof do you have of this? or are you just saying your opinion and calling fact?

35

Anonymous #2 5w

YES omg. they also see us petite girlies as easy targets. like get the fuck out of here

33

Anonymous #17 5w

i had to take multiple sociology classes as a gen ed requirement and in all of them there was a unit on female vs male friendships and it was established that there are less deep, emotional male friendships

18

Anonymous #24 5w

Do some research.

-9

Anonymous #2 5w

Women literally do the same majority of the time like what

13

Anonymous #17 5w

https://scholarworks.uni.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=3906&context=grp

20

Anonymous #17 5w

i’ve done lots of research :)

28

Anonymous #1 5w

Well that’s what the liberals fought for.😂

-8

Anonymous #1 5w

This made zero sense

7

Anonymous #17 5w

Not how that works

23

Anonymous #21 5w

That’s literally EXACTLY how it works. Liberals fought for the right for anyone to choose whenever they want to be anything they want but when people do it and it doesn’t fit your small minded narrative you get mad.

-7

Anonymous #17 5w

Dude fuck off. No one wants you here

27

Anonymous #1 5w

Who’s said they wanted you

-11

Anonymous #17 5w

i want #1 here

28

Anonymous #17 5w

That’s not how it works. It’s not just “I feel like intruding on a woman’s only space so I’m calling myself a woman today”. It’s something different in the brain that can’t just be ignored. Your ignorant bs is just genuinely sad.

27

Anonymous #1 5w

You are very rude and disrespectful

2

Anonymous #24 5w

I love you too man ❤️❤️

21

Anonymous #19 5w

You’re breaking my heart 🥺🥺. Anywayyyys

14

Anonymous #1 5w

Sorry i understand its a women safe space but it should ok to be-able debate with the opposite sex. Im gonna create a group just for debates

3

Anonymous #19 5w

It’s obvi okay to talk with the opposite sex but this is not the space. This is a space for women to vent and share their concerns and feelings.

18

Anonymous #9 5w

If only you knew how hard it is for a male to be intimidated by a female.

-19

Anonymous #9 5w

wait i’ve been thinking about cutting my hip length hair into a bob but ive been scared…this might be the motivation i needed

25

Anonymous #24 5w

How because it doesn’t agree with your opinions. Can you really not look outside yourself objectively. Is that really so hard?

-5

Anonymous #2 5w

Explain please.

-7

Anonymous #17 5w

bc it’s incorrect lmao

15

Anonymous #24 5w

Because you say it is.

-2

Anonymous #27 5w

I think it’s different which is what op is saying. Men tend to treat women like disposable objects in my experience. Like they can toy with us and dump us when they’ve done whatever is they wanted with us. Women do that too but not nearly as much.

34

Anonymous #1 5w

You’re delusional if you think that. Or you don’t get out much. We do it more and definitely worse.

-8

Anonymous #19 5w

friend zoning someone is not oppressive are you so serious? do you really only see women as sex objects to such an extent that you think a woman wanting to be your friend is disrespectful?

31

Anonymous #1 5w

Again you talking about 20% of men, the 20% that 80% of women wants. If 80% of women wants me why would i not play around

15

Anonymous #29 5w

And how do u treat males.

-10

Anonymous #27 5w

there are really superficial women out there who will degrade a man for his looks and men deserve to be able to voice their complaints about this (on a different platform). but id argue it’s a different topic than what the male loneliness epidemic has been turned into

9

Anonymous #17 5w

Did you just call yourself out

13

Anonymous #28 5w

No

-4

Anonymous #17 5w

no bc it’s a recurring phenomenon that’s been studied and is beginning to be referenced in soc and psych classes. you love to call people out for not doing research but have you done any of your own? there’s multiple articles on the oversexualization of women

10

Anonymous #17 5w

You said “we” Meaning you sexualize men I don’t treat men like sex objects that aren’t human. I’m not part of your we

10

Anonymous #24 5w

don’t

-14

Anonymous #30 5w

:(

15

Anonymous #24 5w

Ok so. Everybody body is oversexualized. It’s not just a women issue it’s a people’s issue. Let stop acting like this just belongs to us.

-6

Anonymous #17 5w

it is primarily a women’s issue. everyone’s body can be oversexualized but it’s more common and more acceptable to oversexualize a woman

11

No I’m just able to look outside myself

-3

Anonymous #17 5w

if you’re actually worried about men being oversexualized that would be a really great thing to make your own post on on the men’s platform and a healthy way to vent

15

Anonymous #17 5w

Do you just get off on ragebaiting others? Cause that’s what I’m seeing from both you an 19. You have nothing to actually contribute to this convo other than “men good, woman bad”. Like when will you be done?

25

Anonymous prettyinblue 5w

Making me so pissed. Like I keep telling them to fuck off and they’re just like little kids being told no

23

Anonymous #17 5w

Exactly how they treat me.

32

Anonymous #1 5w

Oh there’s some men that are absolutely horrible atrocious people. And there are so some women who are also horrible atrocious people. However I’m able to see past the “women inherently good and soft, and men inherently evil and hard” narrative that is being pushed by people like you.

-4

Anonymous #29 5w

That’s fair.

9

Anonymous #17 5w

Are you done

16

Anonymous #1 5w

Are you?

-3

Anonymous #17 5w

Not until you stop spouting your hateful bullshit

18

Anonymous #1 5w

I could say the same for you.

-3

Anonymous #17 5w

Lmao “no u” mf. Grow up lol

13

Anonymous #28 5w

Same

12

Anonymous #17 5w

women aren’t inherently good and soft and men aren’t inherently evil and hard. the reason that women are more commonly sexualized and why it’s an issue is because it’s perpetuated and reinforced by societal standards. no one thinks men are inherently bad but it’s not realistic to say that these issues aren’t more aimed towards women because that’s what has been made socially acceptable.

16

Anonymous #24 5w

In some cases yes. However there’s a massive underreporting problem on both sides that make it hard to back that up. I can see your point though.

-1

girl i hope you’re joking rn

18

On a post talking about the oversexualizing of women you come and oversexualized men.😕

1

Anonymous #17 5w

This is literally my point. RIGHT HERE. We CANNOT play the victim card with people like this out here.

-3

Anonymous #17 5w

i do agree that there’s an underreporting problem but if you’re actually interested in men’s vs women’s issues and aren’t just arguing to argue i’d strongly suggest taking even an intro to soc class or even a gender studies class if you have free time in your schedule. i can’t talk for all colleges but mine had separate units on male centered issues and women centered issues

6

Anonymous #17 5w

it can really help to open your eyes to what the other side goes to

8

Anonymous #24 5w

Yeah im going into the social studies field trying to be a social worker for kids who ain’t got no one else.

-2

Anonymous #17 5w

okay but tbf i’m like 90% sure #31 is trolling

5

catering your physical appearance to make yourself more attractive to men <<<<

1

My point exactly.

0

Anonymous #17 5w

We can’t move forward with problems if we’re still lessening one genders problem to elevate our own.

-1

Well I don’t know the standards in Europe so I have no opinion.

-1

Anonymous #17 5w

this post isn’t about lessening men’s problems tho, it’s about how the “male loneliness epidemic” has been turned into a way to degrade women. i honestly think you’d find there’s a ton of feminists who are actually very for working towards men’s issues on top of working towards women’s, especially with things like mental health. the patriarchy hurts EVERYONE

5

Anonymous #25 5w

whos we?

7

they’re trolling, no one uses the term “looksmaxxing” unironically

1

As per my point unfortunately feminism has desolved into men-hating women and doesn’t even support black women for real.

-2

Anonymous #25 5w

my bf is 5’4 and i wouldn’t change a thing about him. idk who “we” is

21

Anonymous #24 5w

Everyone who is not you

-2

Anonymous #17 5w

#17 really thinks that men are the victims

11

Men AND women can be victims is my point which you would know if you had comprehension skills. If you think otherwise then you’re hating people for the same mindset YOU have. Look inside before you look outside.

-4

Ladies this is why we get treated the way we do.

0

Anonymous #17 5w

Exactly

0

Anonymous #17 5w

i feel like this is a cyclical argument going on here, but if you’re actually going into social work i do hope you look more into articles on the social expectations of women, men’s issues and women’s issues, and intersectional feminism (bc i do agree there’s lots of issues with “white feminism”)

-2

Anonymous #24 5w

i think it’s a good thing for all social degrees to study and i think it might be able to help you better understand the actual motivations behind feminism movements

5

I personally don’t think it’s a problem. But have thick skin. It’s when it’s used as point against one genders problem when both genders so obviously do it.

-3

Who put u in a league above anyone else? Y do u think your above anyone else?

3

American men are better than European men by far.

-2

Anonymous #15 5w

Still choosing the ones that treat yall like shit even though those aren’t the ones it affects

5

No y’all are not the most preferred, who told u this?

3

ewww a weirdo🤮

19

saying european and blonde women are the most preferred is so eurocentric and is giving racism. i hope you grow up and learn to accept everyone regardless of what they look like, and learn that physical beauty is subjective

3

I’ll stand for American men before foreigners

10

hes kind, ambitious, funny, smart, handsome, and treats me like a queen and we love each other so much but i should break up with him because hes short? you’re embarrassing yourself

11

Anonymous #24 5w

That view is more popular than you think.

-3

right what a weirdo

1

Anonymous #2 5w

i always feel like the odd one out w this bc everyone around has experiences getting cat called and stuff and i never really have. it makes me think im just unattractive and makes me feel insecure. idk i feel so weird about it. like i don’t wanna be catcalled or sexualized but i do bc it might make me feel pretty idk

21

Anonymous #17 5w

!!

0

Anonymous #35 5w

Don’t rely on men to validate your worthiness and attractiveness.

18

Anonymous #17 5w

No it’s not

1

Anonymous #17 5w

I’m pretty sure it’s your narrative that’s small minded. Often people in your seat make this claims because of their own unwillingness to understand these concepts more than the surface level while being actively hostile to broadening their understanding. But I guess conservatives ARE fighting for everyone’s right to be uneducated and stay that way

9

Anonymous #17 5w

I’m just saying, the only people who make these things partisan are the ones who benefit from dividing people

6

genuinely what do u get out of hating on someone supporting yall. idc if i get dv just be honest, why does hating on me make u happier

1

Anonymous #1 5w

I can agree with that. But in my experience as a heavier set dude women tend to choose men that are like that over men like myself. Every man starts out decent I’m not going to lie but then we all just kind of stop caring bc caring usually gets us no where🤷‍♂️. But I agree men are pigs 😂

0

Anonymous #38 5w

Nobody asked u bro why are you on a women’s forum? Why do men come into our safe spaces and get surprised we don’t like it??

1

didn’t even answer the damn question

0

Anonymous #9 5w

i’m ngl i didn’t even see what i got on i got a notification for the post and didn’t read the group. acting like yik yak is a safe space is crazy tho

-4

i’m sorry an american man hurt u

-2

Anonymous #38 5w

Bro if you were truly supportive you wouldn’t be here trying to prove you’re the “exception”. Don’t be that guy that insists on inserting himself into women’s spaces because you feel like it. Why don’t you take your talking points to the dudes in your life, they’re the ones that really need it.

6

You don’t really sound like a good person tbh

6

Anonymous #37 5w

i wasn’t trying to show that i’m different i was just trying to show support till the other person attacked me outa nowhere. i didn’t even realize it was girl talk like i previously said and if yall hadn’t just insulted me like i personally wronged u i woulda js left

0

sigh. gotta love misandry

0

thank u. i’ll turn off notos

15

Anonymous #38 5w

Ok show support by staying out dumbass. 😭 I didn’t even insult you before I just pointed out ur not supposed to be here.

5

No chance y’all smell like cigarettes in Europe

8

Anonymous #3 5w

there is literally no winning

10

Anonymous #35 5w

me too and i totally get what u mean. ur not weird for this i promise but we have to unlearn the false idea that male attention equates to how objectively beautiful we are. it’s easier said than done, and takes a while, but again i understand you and feel this way too ♥️

31

Anonymous #11 5w

the patriarchy and inherent misogyny is so deeply rooted in our society that it shapes the way we all think and act even towards other women because we’ve been trained since birth that the world revolves around men and their approval

11

Anonymous #19 5w

that’s not the point of this post please just fuck off

17

all the men in this thread seem pretty defensive idk

11

Anonymous #34 5w

maybe men shouldn’t treat women like shit. think about that?

14

Anonymous #24 5w

do it!

12

Lmaoo look which country have the most miss world 😂

3

Anonymous #1 5w

I don’t think bigger men are treated any better

-6

Im pretty sure america is number 1

4

Anonymous #19 5w

It is no questions bout that

1

Anonymous #1 5w

always

1

Anonymous #34 5w

Imagine seeing domestic abuse and thinking it’s the victims fault

17

Anonymous #24 5w

DO IT

12

Anonymous #9 5w

Well pick better people.

-10

Anonymous #19 5w

The fact that men truly unironically think not getting laid by any woman you talk to is oppression really shows the privilege yall live under holy shit. Start being a better friend to other men, it’s not the job of every girl you talk to to be your mommy.

22

Anonymous #9 5w

WOW, everything u just said was false and wrought with stereotypes. You havent even met a tiny percent of the population of men yet you really got on here and said that shit. And the privilege that women have is legendary, only matched by racism. You want examples?

-7

Sure we should. Don’t be surprised if they beat our asses. Girl power only goes so far and we fought for equality.

-5

It’s honestly crazy to say that.

-3

Anonymous #42 5w

stop making this about men

22

Anonymous #17 5w

do you even know about the relationships two women can have with each other? it’s magical to befriend another woman

17

Anonymous #17 5w

we literally live in a society created by men for men. but yeah women are the most privileged

10

Anonymous #4 5w

I never said women couldn’t be friends but we tear each other down more than any man

-3

Anonymous #17 5w

explain the privilege part

14

Anonymous #4 5w

I don’t and I don’t like men that do and think abusers should get their faces smashed. Abusive and manipulative men aren’t affected by this issue one cause they don’t really care and two because they circumvent it through their manipulation

-2

Anonymous #34 5w

doesn’t make you saying “pick better people” any better. you’re a dickhead

12

Anonymous #4 5w

I know for a fact some people men and women actively pick people they know are shitty or have bright flashing red flags

-2

Anonymous #34 5w

okay and? what’s your point here?

10

Anonymous #4 5w

That it’s typically not the bad men that are affected by this issue

7

Anonymous #34 5w

by what issue

8

Anonymous #4 5w

the loneliness epidemic ? thats not an issue. its made up

16

Anonymous #4 5w

“Loneliness epidemic” also I digress I was a dickhead in my original comment

7

Anonymous #4 5w

No I’d say that there’s a lot of divide between both men and women rn and even within the genders

2

Anonymous #34 5w

that is not the male loneliness epidemic. why you stated is just a fact. the “male loneliness epidemic “ is men playing the victim because women aren’t centering their lives around men

10

Anonymous #19 5w

why does it matter so much what i think is attractive

6

Anonymous #19 5w

you just wanna know if i think you’re ugly too huh

4

Anonymous #38 5w

asking you to leave because this is not your space is not misandry. it’s asking politely

1

Anonymous #17 5w

i can reasonably complain about it because 1. two things can be true at once & 2. i dont disrespect people sheerly due to their looks. my point was that yes, SOME women do that. not all. just as i said CERTAIN men are pieces of shit. not all. nuance.

9

Anonymous #4 5w

Lmaoo i already know where i stand, women and society already made it clear for me.

0

Anonymous #19 5w

at least you’re self aware! no need to play the victim then

4

Anonymous #4 5w

But i still need you to describe what’s attractive to you.

-2

Anonymous #19 5w

i’m not answering because it’s irrelevant

5

Anonymous #4 5w

actually no. i like it when you beg

1

Anonymous #4 5w

Lmaooo its relevant keep getting played by the 10%

-2

Anonymous #19 5w

keep getting overlooked by women and the rest of society

6

Anonymous #4 5w

Thats fine more time to focus on my 3.7gpa and my clothing business.

0

Anonymous #19 5w

oh you’re so successful! congratulations!

8

Anonymous #6 5w

u and i both 🫩

4

Anonymous #2 5w

Oooh don’t even get me started. I’m petite as well but I also look super young like nobody believes me when I say I’m 20. So I get sexualized all the time by pervy men.

3

Anonymous #4 5w

Um yes we do. Whether we admit it or not, most of us consciously if not subconsciously center ourselves around male opinion to the point where we fight each other. Just like males center themselves around other males opinions. It’s a natural part of life.

-1

Anonymous #4 5w

*loud incorrect buzzer*

4

Anonymous #17 5w

i’m not one of most women then. and that’s not natural, it’s toxic to go to the extreme of fighting each other just because of men

10

Anonymous #4 5w

so men center themselves around other men too? so men are always the center of all?

6

Anonymous #4 5w

Did I say that? Where did I say that? How are you able to twist others words around to fit your narrative like that? Yes males judge themselves based on other males. At least healthy ones do.

-2

Anonymous #17 5w

you implied it by saying women and men center themselves around men, therefore by that logic men are always at the center of everyone’s lives. healthy individuals do not base all of their self worth on men

9

Anonymous #4 5w

YES MEN BASE THEMSELVES OFF OF OTHER MEN. ITS CALLED A PATRIARCHY. YOU THINK YOU’RE THE REASON THEY GET OUT OF BED. WHY DO YOU THINK WE’VE ONLY HAD MALE PRESIDENTS? QUIT BEING NAIVE AND GET SOME COMMON SENSE.

-2

Anonymous #17 5w

Somebody is having some big feelings lol

5

Anonymous #19 5w

“Average” men tend to still be picky with who they date/pursue tho. Looks is a much bigger factor for men when it comes to relationships than it is for women. Yes ofc women want attractive men but if they have good personality & treat you right, that makes them automatically attractive despite the physical looks. Hence why you see very beautiful women with “average” looking guys more than really attractive guys with “average” women🤷‍♀️

7

Anonymous #17 5w

The patriarchy isn’t natural. It’s not “a natural part of life.” It’s socialization and the male loneliness epidemic is a reaction to it losing strength

7

Anonymous #17 5w

I’ve only ever heard men complain about the male loneliness epidemic.

1