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the thought of letting a man penetrate me feels deeply violating and humiliating. I genuinely don't get how so many women are okay with it. i don’t get how all women are not lesbians. becoming a lesbian is the single greatest thing to challenge patriarchy
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Anonymous 21h

You don’t “become” lesbian you either are or you aren’t

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Anonymous 21h

so sexuality isnt a choice and saying this actually perpetuates the idea that lesbians just need to find the right man! political lesbianism is extremely lesbophobic and misogynistic

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Anonymous 21h

I understand the feeling but also gotta remember your feelings aren’t universal. I know some people feel it like an intimate connection not violating. But it depends on the person

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Anonymous 21h

feels good to

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