the thought of letting a man penetrate me feels deeply violating and humiliating. I genuinely don't get how so many women are okay with it. i don’t get how all women are not lesbians. becoming a lesbian is the single greatest thing to challenge patriarchy
You don’t “become” lesbian you either are or you aren’t
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Anonymous21h
so sexuality isnt a choice and saying this actually perpetuates the idea that lesbians just need to find the right man! political lesbianism is extremely lesbophobic and misogynistic
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Anonymous21h
I understand the feeling but also gotta remember your feelings aren’t universal. I know some people feel it like an intimate connection not violating. But it depends on the person