Anonymous #1 5w

This has been an ongoing thing for years, he only pretends to care about it when he has to make up excuses as to why he keeps fucking me over 😭 I lived with him when he was going through the same issues with his parents and he never gave af then trust It’s a conversation about sexual assault, that’s why he doesn’t want to talk about it. Not bc he doesn’t have time. And the convo is for me, not him.

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Anonymous OP 5w

Oh I understand. I would text his mother and ask to see her and spend some time with her, then go meet with him and basically corner him. You don’t have to necessarily hear him talk about anything, you can just let him listen. That’s more powerful than getting forced closure. Just be calm and collected and be level minded. You seem very sweet, but not everyone deserves your empathy and patience. Some people just aren’t capable of registering that level of care from genuine people.

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Anonymous #1 5w

but that’s also a very hard thing to do. This situation could be handled in many different ways, but that’s just an idea of what you could do that doesn’t have any conflict.

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Anonymous #2 5w

Yeah idc. I still need to say what I need to say and then I’m done 😭

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Anonymous OP 5w

He doesn’t care about what you need to say. You’d be better off cutting contact and finding peace on your own

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Anonymous #2 5w

Ik, it’s not for him, it’s for me

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Anonymous OP 5w

Yes but you’re wasting your time and energy on this atp. Work towards making peace with the situation without involving him. You can’t force him to listen so focus on what you can control

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