Girl Talk on Sidechat | apparently it’s performative to be a “girl’s girl” now, because women can’t possibly like each other or support each other. at least what the lonely men are saying jfc.

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Girl Talk 5w

apparently it’s performative to be a “girl’s girl” now, because women can’t possibly like each other or support each other. at least what the lonely men are saying jfc.

Anonymous 5w

men just say that because they don’t actually like each other as people unlike women. everything they do is for validation, we actually want to connect with one another

Anonymous 5w

It’s performative to obsessively label yourself as a girls girl imo and that’s the most common opinion on it I’ve seen. the most outspoken “girls girls” I’ve met have all been horrible people. actually just supporting other girls has never been an issue

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Anonymous

#1 5w

no, it’s men, in their own incel corners, saying women never get along & anyone who says they like other women is lying—ie. any woman who has lots of other friends who are women, who’s close with her OWN SISTERS, who likes her mom, are performative—and it’s MEN saying this because they think women are catty & petty drama 24/7. It’s fucking sexist idgaf.

Anonymous

#2 5w

EXACTLY 🙏 they’re so lonely in their own friendships they can’t believe women actually form meaningful relationships with each other!

Anonymous

OP 5w

that’s why when men say we’ll “end up “alone and “die alone” if we don’t get married and have kids i laugh my fucking ass off. women are way too creative and social beings by nature to ever truly be alone. it’s such projection because they can’t ever imagine a scenario where they’re happy without those things

Anonymous

OP 5w

personally I’ve met four girls who wouldn’t shut the fuck up about how they were special and “girls girls” and that was just SO important to them. two of them actively tried to get me to cheat on my bf of 3 years, and the other two left me crossed asf in some guy I didn’t know’s room at a frat on purpose. I’m not talking about men, I’m talking about me, and about a lot of other girls I have met irl who have had similar experiences. (1/2)

Anonymous

#1 5w

I don’t think you really understood when I said that the label and being obsessed with it is the performative part, not the actual being a girls girl. if you truly care about other girls, you’re probably not announcing it at every given opportunity to make sure everyone else you knows how much better you are than them unless you’re performing.