Anonymous #4 8w

my issue is i’m unsure because he isn’t necessarily treating me BAD , i’m only ever used to relationships ending because of a significantly bad event happening like cheating or something does that make sense ?

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Anonymous OP 8w

When you’re in a relationship you always tend to highlight the good to yourself but you have to realize that being treated decent or well sometimes doesn’t negate them not being a good partner

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Anonymous OP 8w

part of healing from that is also learning to end things for the smaller more simpler stuff too 🙂‍↔️ but i get u fr

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Anonymous hooters 8w

ugh yea 😔we’ve just been together for 2 1/2 years too so sometimes i feel like im overreacting but my friends are telling me it seems like he’s too comfortable…. (we’re also long distance since i graduated and he had a year left)

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Anonymous OP 8w

i was in this situation a few years ago also and 1000% projecting rn but also speaking from my own experience, i regret letting him convince me out of breaking up. I wasn't happy for the next 2 yrs i dedicated to that relationship n he ended up cheating anyways, listen to you and what you want. If you feel unhappy and have brought it up and he hasn't changed, he's not going to, breaking up now will hurt way less than letting it fester

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Anonymous hooters 8w

oh girl i don’t think ur projecting that actually helps a lot hearing from someone who had a similar experience

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Anonymous OP 8w

Yeah that’s always so hard bc it’s easier to question yourself but heads up if you actually do break up with him and he can suddenly meet all of your needs now that he lost you, you made the right decision.

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Anonymous OP 8w

Not all relationships have to end because something bad happened, sometimes things just don’t work out and you gotta cut your losses. Otherwise you’ll end up settling for less when you clearly want a partner who makes you a priority

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