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My bf is mad I told my therapist things abt our relationship and he’s also mad he can’t be present during the sessions. Istg everyday it’s something new. Like bro it’s confidentiality you can’t be there!!
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Anonymous 20w

lmao don’t listen to the troll bc they are weird, but the other post is right this is such a red flag and i’m telling you now it won’t end well. a normal stable boyfriend would never say things like that or think like thayv

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Anonymous 20w

the biggest predictor of being murdered by an intimate/domestic partner is coercive control. even if he’s not physically abusing you, he’s trying to control you and that’s beyond a red flag.

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Anonymous 20w

Here’s what is actually the biggest red flag for me “Istg everyday it’s something new”. That’s not how a healthy relationship should feel. It doesn’t have to be like that. Find someone who you LIKE and likes you.

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Anonymous 20w

red flag red flag red flag!!!!!!!! u should be able to talk abt ur relationship with others, and u should be able to meet with a medical professional without him there or trying to intimidate u to let him be there. this is not normal

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Anonymous 20w

You’ve gotta call it quits. If he can’t respect your privacy and your therapy session as a whole, space where you’re supposed to be able to safely open up about anything, that’s not a good fit and he doesn’t respect you.

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Anonymous 20w

he’s a walking red flag i fear

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Anonymous 20w

get out while you still can, i'm scared for u girl

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Anonymous 20w

hey this is kinda terrifying - he should not be MAD that he can’t be in YOUR therapy sessions

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Anonymous 20w

so are you dumping him or are we jumping him? lmk

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Anonymous 20w

My ex was kinda similar, he would hate it when i brought up some of the shitty things he would do around my friends

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Anonymous 20w

Bird

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 20w

Both

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 20w

unfortunately most ppl won’t just dump their partner even with the advice and even though we all think she should 😔 but we all know it’ll end eventually so😭

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