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hey girlies im 19 and haven’t had my first anything. i feel like people irl just do not want me because when I try to initiate anything i just end up getting rejected or ghosted and then online i feel it’s strange to date someone miles away. advice?
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Anonymous 21w

My advice is don’t rush it! Find someone you actually want a relationship with and start there. Letting it happen more naturally is a way better experience (I did wait for it, I’m using what my friends have said as well) There’s no need to rush it. Society has a weird obsession with doing stuff like this, especially losing your virginity, at or before 18 but don’t give into that.

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