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294 upvotes, 21 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk.
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Anonymous 33w

I would much rather end up a single cat lady than going through the depression and frustration (and probably divorce) with a horrible husband

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Anonymous 33w

They think this is a women’s fear because that’s their fear, loneliness

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Anonymous 33w

also telling women that all careers suck & the only fulfilling lifestyle could be as a married mother like our only options can be a stay at home mom or corporate slave <<<

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Anonymous 33w

spending my time at home alone with my cat, no kids running around screaming, no waiting for the bathroom, i get to control when i have other people in my own home… yeah no i see no problem with that

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Anonymous 33w

So be a slave to your career not your future family got it.

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Anonymous 33w

ok but this post kinda sucks bc in the end its like “yes a woman’s fear is ending up alone (but with extra steps)”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 33w

Corporate slave is bad raise some kids way more fulfilling

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 33w

i don’t think this is talking about loneliness but more of betrayal and the waste of time and energy and life

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 33w

no, the fear is going through something so horrible. yes they will be alone, but the fear is going through that effort just to feel unloved. like two ppl losing weight. one person for health reasons, one for vanity. they’re both gonna end up smaller, but the fear for one person is being unhealthy and the fear of other is wanting more attention.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 33w

Then aren’t you a slave to your kids? You lose your entire identity.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 33w

i’m convinced you just can’t read #7

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 33w

You shouldn’t be a slave to either 😭 working hard at your job shouldn’t mean your job owns you and having a family shouldn’t mean they regard you as less than them

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 33w

how did you even come to this conclusion ??? im like genuinely confused

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 33w

Thinking that the only alternative to being a slave to your family is being a slave to your future career is a toxic mindset girl I hope you mature out of it soon

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 33w

or, women can commit themselves to all sorts of passions outside of offices & baby nurseries. idk why this is so hard for some people to understand, but you don’t need to impose your limiting beliefs on others

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 33w

we grow up asking young girls what they wanna be when they grow up & then get upset when they actually consider what they want their future to look like outside of just who they’re married to

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 33w

Yes the job does own you, unless you want a broke nigga know your roles like we do maybe you’ll will get married

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 33w

Not you acting like the only two life paths a woman can choose from are SAHM or corporate slave 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 33w

My “role” is currently sustaining myself with my own money, which unlike what you’re preaching here doesn’t mean that my job owns me 24:7

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 33w

*24/7

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 33w

women can own their own businesses, travel all the time, create art & music, connect w/ other women, etc. all without being “owned” by a corporation or getting married? why do you hate the idea of a free, single/childless, HAPPY woman so much?

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