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Do women realize that in many situations breaking up with their bf is an option? Like if all he brings you is pain and suffering, why stay??
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Anonymous 9w

Sometimes it’s hard to break up with someone especially if you’ve been with them for a long time. Some people don’t know how to deal with being alone after being with someone for that long

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Anonymous 9w

I've never really had friends, I'm autistic and strange. It's hard to leave someone who loves you. If I left I'd be entirely alone. Although my situation is different, my bf treats me like a queen, its his son that causes me nothing but pain and suffering.

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Anonymous 9w

1. Low self esteem first and foremost 2. They put men on a pedestal and then have absolutely no one to turn to when it’s all said and done

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Well thats why we as women need to stick together even after we get into relationships. A girl with good friends is never alone and a woman will always have ur back in ur darkest moments (even moreso than a man). The more a girl can rely on her friends, the more of an escape she’ll have if the relationship sours.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

I agree, but I think most people have had a friend that won’t leave a relationship even if they want to or if that’s what’s best for them. I’ll always be there for them but I can’t make them so anything yk

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Yea. That’s why I try to build my friends up and challenge their insecurities. This behavior is sadly a result of societal conditioning and MANipulation. I believe tho that the stronger a girl is, the more likely she will be to resist a man’s behavior and truly choose what’s best for her, relationship or not. I want my friends to know that any man they try to be with must EXCEED the way I treat them in every way and that he shall not get in the way of our friendship. Same with all her other gfs.

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