Honestly, as someone who would never date someone who rides a motorcycle because i don’t want my heart to be broken if they were to die… I’d say this is valid grounds for an ultimatum. He knew EXACTLY how you felt about it and he did it anyway

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“There are two types of motorcycle riders: those who have crashed and those who will crash.” -wise words a man with a fucked up arm from a motorcycle crash once told me. Set a deadline to have it sold by and be prepared to stand by your ultimatum.

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But I told him that I’m not going to say anything because I’m not going to entertain that response. He gets mad and thinks I’m holding things in and told me WEDNESDAY that if I want to hold things in, talk to him when I stop or go find someone else after telling him “Even if I do talk to you, you don’t listen so okay. 👍” It’s been 4 days since I didn’t text him. Should I resolve the issue?

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I don’t see what’s so important to have a motorcycle when he already fell off it and have to wait two weeks to get a class and licensed but after I said strictly, not to get it..”it’s for an experience” BULLSHIT

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Ngl… I would break up with him. Every single time it’s car vs. motorcycle, the car wins. If he wants to do that you can tell him you don’t think it’s a good idea and explain why but at the end of the day it’s his life. If that’s not something you’re comfortable with, leave.

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