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I need advice so I’m talking to a med student who I thought perfectly aligned with what I wanted. But then he revealed he has a fantasy of having a threesome with the girl he’s dating and her close friend? Do I run or is that normal?
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Anonymous 6w

no that’s weird

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Anonymous 6w

I think that’s fine? It’s a bit kinky yeah but there isn’t anything wrong with it especially if he is respectful of his partner’s desired.

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Anonymous 6w

I asked if he’d do it if given the chance and he said idk it’s more of a fantasy than a thing that would actually happen. He also said he wouldn’t be interested in the other girl, he just thinks it’s hot when women are confident around each other

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

I think it’s weird because why is he sexualizing female friendships? Why would he wanna have a threesome with his girlfriend and her close friend?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

He also has said weird stuff to me like how I “tempt him but also keep him in line” and how he “wants to rip my clothes off but also just wants to care for me” and idk what to think of it all

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I’m a kinky person so I’m not particularly phased by any of this, but if these comments are making you uncomfortable then I think that’s a valid reason to leave. Especially if he’s sharing this stuff without really checking to see if it’s okay for him to say or if you want to hear these things. That would definitely be a red flag

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