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Advice plz my bf keeps drinking and i dont know how to put my point across we’ve been through it
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Anonymous 1w

My ex was an alcoholic... I am sorry you are going through this. I know it’s a terrible feeling. If he is making you feel small and not listening, it is best that you leave him. Good luck

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Anonymous 1w

Yea like fr would your drunk ass man call you a b word and not be nice like im tired of feeling like I’m so small

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Anonymous 1w

I’m a person who dealt w/ an alcoholic parent so while I might be very biased I saw similar shit. 1) no matter what relationship never have someone put you down, like seriously don’t let someone put you down and make you feel small. You’re not. But for real, how long has he been actively drinking and how much? Do you also know why? But idk your circumstances but it sounds like he’s putting you 2nd and the alcohol 1st.

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Anonymous 1w

he won’t stop unless there’s a consequence. you being upset isn’t enough for him. it sucks but you might just have to leave him. do you really want to babysit this man for the rest of ur life?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Yes true he’s been doing it since we got together over a year ago, but all his life i love him to death but getting tired of bby sitting like im in college and i work

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Well you shouldn’t have to at your age babysit someone around your age. Because I’ve seen it get worse with the drinking and trust me you don’t want it to get worse. That’s also the hard part because of the feelings, I get it that you love him and it’s hard. But, just be aware of everything. Do you want to keep being put down? Do you want to deal with him continuing to drink? But if you can get him on the track to drinking less or even sobriety it can work out. Just make sure he knows 1/2

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

that you’re really tired of this. Because if he doesn’t listen to your needs then there’s just another issue at play.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

No i do not

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