Anonymous #2 9w

I did, several times, and that boundary was crossed anyway

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It was a compatibility issue. It just wouldnt have worked out. I dont like the party scene and he was heavily into it. I didnt want to lose myself being with him, and i think thats a valid reason

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Anonymous OP 9w

Ok ok, yeah then you are better off girly, for a sec I thought you meant you didn’t wanna bring it up because you didn’t think it was fair and left without telling him that was the main reason, because some people will change

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Anonymous #2 9w

Him being a partier became kind of who he was, and i didnt know that when we first started. I dont think someone should change the fundamentals of who they are for someone else, because then, they arent really themselves. And it would be selfish of me to ask that

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Anonymous OP 9w

And I communicated this of course and he said “i am glad you communicated this witb me” our entire relationship we communicated everything we felt and i told him from the get go we communicate, no hiding out feelings.

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hey so compatibility matters in a relationship and if your partners actions dont line up with your morals/values theres someone else out there who will, god forbid someone tries to make themselves comfortable, and stop being salty by insulting OP youre just sad babes💋

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Anonymous OP 9w

That’s totally a valid reason, I was the same way and wasn’t into guys who would drink/smoke, be true to yourself and you’ll def find someone else who’s what you’re looking for, good on you for not settling

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