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do you guys think going to the having a guy friend as your gym buddy would be sus if you’re in a relationship? genuine hypothetical i just thought of
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Anonymous 7w

very sus. ur bf should be ur gym partner or another girl if you want one. unless ur okay with a girl going to the gym with ur bf then don’t do it

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Anonymous 7w

personally idc, if i can’t trust my partner then i shouldn’t be in that relationship 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous 7w

even though my partner and i are in a very trusting relationship, i would still feel like i was crossing a line if i did that tbh. i haven’t ever had any male friends that i hang out with 1:1 though, so idk if that has any affect on why i feel that way. i think this is one of those things that just really depends on you and your partner individually

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Anonymous 7w

Bruh if my boyfriend had a female gym partner that wasn’t a lesbian he would go to the gym single idc!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

the weird thing is personally my feeling is absolutely not but logically i know this is true which is why i was unsure of the answer

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

hey it’s good to be able to do that! a lot of my opinions on relationships are connected to the fact that i’m bi. if i were suspicious of a partner for having a woman gym buddy, then wouldn’t they be within their right to be weirded out by me having ANY gym buddy? like a lot of jealousy stuff that comes up for straight ppl falls apart for a bi perspective. maybe ask urself if u would feel this way if u were dating a bi man and he had a gym buddy of any gender?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

u also might just need to understand urself and potentially work through insecurity or trust issues if u feel like that comes up. like if u think ur not good enough to be faithful to or something, then obviously u won’t be okay with this, but high self esteem will make u go “okay lol whatever have fun”. im also a dancer so im used to physical contact in a lot of ways, so that informs my opinion on this too.

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