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Did anyone else fantasize about getting sick or injured as a kid so that people cared for them, or did I just discover another therapy talking point
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Anonymous 1w

i wanted a broken bone, i got an injury american girl doll pack and think that might have fueled it. her cast always looked so fun

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Anonymous 1w

Friends! This turned out a lot more relatable than I thought. I’m learning we all need therapists

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Anonymous 1w

I DESPERATELY wanted to go into a coma because I thought everyone hated me and I wanted to see if anyone would show up for me <3

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Anonymous 1w

I did and would ask my mom who was in nursing school vague questions like “if the dresser was to fall on me would I need stitches?” My mom “probably why?” Me “no reason.” Then would patter back to my bedroom thinking ‘drat….i hate stitches…’

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Anonymous 1w

Oh yall were thinking injury? I was picturing people finally caring at my funeral and I'd cry myself to sleep 💀

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Anonymous 1w

I still do this!!

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Anonymous 1w

i did! i also wanted to get kidnapped😛

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Anonymous 1w

Actually yes. I constantly fantasize about ending up in the hospital just to see if anyone would be bothered to show up. Sometimes it gets worse cause I overthink myself into scenarios where I die in the hospital alone.

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Anonymous 1w

i did and it seems pretty common tbh i see it talked abt online a lot

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Anonymous 1w

no i did too i swear you're valid (go to therapy though)

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Anonymous 1w

Yes but it is a psychological thing that you should talk to your therapist about!!

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Anonymous 1w

I still think this way in my 20s 🥲

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Anonymous 1w

Umm I think that’s you but I can understand

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Anonymous 1w

yes 🫩 but when i did get sick or injured it made things worse because i was even more of an inconvenience

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Anonymous 1w

I did! one time I told my mom about it and still remember the concern when she said “no you’re always loved”

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Anonymous 1w

It’s definitely a symptom of not feeling heard or cared for as a child. I experienced it too. Looking back as an adult makes it so obvious that we were just pained children who wished those around us actually realized our worth n our value, smthing we didn’t have the circumstances to make sure was expressed to us

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Anonymous 1w

i used to pray for god to take cancer away from kids who had it and give it to me instead

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Anonymous 1w

And then I was hospitalized with colitis (basically shit-a-lot-for-a-couple-of-days disease) and I didn’t tell a SOUL because I was embarrassed 🥀🥀🥀

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Anonymous 1w

I used to daydream abt being kidnapped for a few days during which I gained the trust of my captor and outsmarted him to escape 😭

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Anonymous 1w

I wanted a cast so people could sign it, I thought that was so cool

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

i had this exact same experience omg

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 1w

See I have OCD and I didn’t want to ACTUALLY die, so I could never take it this far in my imagination bc I was scared I was going to accidentally manifest it 😞

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

And did 💅 I'm not ocd but def had a long period of suicidal thoughts well into my early 20s. Not being loved really fucks you up as a child

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 1w

And actions, sadly, but not anymore thankfully

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I'm of the thought that everyone needs a therapist just as much as a PCP!! Why do we treat the mind, the thing driving the body, as lesser than the body?! Like some people need physical treatment (PT/OT, intensive care, home health, etc) more than others (checkups only) but we all need healthcare, and we ALL need mental care in different capacities!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 1w

I’m glad to hear you’re doing better 🫶🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 1w

this one made my jaw drop i'm dead

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