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how do i stop automatically consider someone a potential person to date? like i’ll be able to shut it down after the thought, but when i initially meet someone, it’s the first thing my mind goes to. (this is a gen q, ik it’s a problem).
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Anonymous 1w

Are you attracted to everyone you meet 😭

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Anonymous 1w

I do this too

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

no. that’s how i’m easily able to shut down the thought. but like i’ll meet someone and my mind will go “huh, i wonder if we’d ever date” or something like that, but i then think about attraction and i know im not attracted to the person

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