
Hey! so saying transgender women arent women is still transphobic 🥰 thats not respectful at all and is actually incredibly rude! trans women ARE women whether you want to accept that or not. it really isnt your choice to decide whether they are "real" women, and its weird asf to pretend you respect someone while also claiming their identity isnt valid.
They can go by “woman” and I’ll respect it, but you cannot say they are real women. Real women are biologically female. Real women have female reproductive organs, menstrual cycles, the ability to become pregnant, etc. Part of why many women don’t like when trans women claim to be real women is that it diminishes the real pain and discomfort that biological women constantly have to go through that trans women do not. Trans women are trans women, but they are not “real” biological women.
you are aware gender and biology are complex not black and white right, like intersex people exist. some trans men are still have periods yet that doesnt make them any less of a man. trans women not having the biological parts doesnt automatically make them inferior like you're implying. any trans woman ive seen trying to belittle a womans experience is doing it for ragebait or views. which a lot of people forget those type of people come in any gender.
“…isn’t your choice to decide whether they are ‘real’ women…” You’re right, just like it isn’t my choice that I have brown eyes. I would look silly going around telling everyone I have blue eyes, and sure I could get color contacts to make my eyes appear blue, but biologically I will always have brown eyes. Just like how biologically, XX denotes female and XY denotes male. That was already decided for them and hardcoded into nearly every one of the trillions of cells that they consist of! :)
Sooo they should be forced into men’s spaces? Girl if it’s a girls gym it’s for the girls ALL girls. Also my mom was amab (is cis) and has no ovaries after ovarian cancer, my sister got a mesactomy (back issues) ik plenty of women w no boobs after surging cancer or can’t have children. Women come in all forms not just the biological box you wanna force them. Also girly pop plenty of trans women have boobs or have been or are on estrogen. Being forced into men’s spaces as a WOMAN can mean death
Welcome to 2026. Some people willingly choose to live in ignorance as a means to protect their existing worldview from any threat to its stability — including literally believing that a trans woman is culturally perceived exactly the same as a real woman. They cannot help themselves and you will not convince them otherwise. Still, it’s good to remind them how the real world works every now and then as you just have.