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Let me tell u all why im gonna die alone. And its not the typical “im unlovable” i feel literally genetically unfit for sex and love (putting in comments for clarity)
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Anonymous 1d

first of all i have ZERO charm. like i can only have personality w ppl i dont know when im drinking and even then, that personalities at best slightly annoying.

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Anonymous 1d

i’m gonna be so real and i say this with love as someone whose also in it, maybe try therapy? I don’t think ur as messed up as you think you are but sometimes you really just need someone to help you figure ts out and build ur confidence!

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Anonymous 1d

but i only get approached at clubs, and usually by guys that clearly just wanna hook up. idk how to meet people beyond that! im not social so i dont go many places. and dating apps suckkkkk cause i need them to be rlly attractive to me, but then my lack of personality and charm turn them away if we ever do meet up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

im attractive sure but i give off a certain “never been touched in her life and really needs to loosen the fuck up” that most men find unappealing. i also have such high standards its insane. i get repulsed at the first sign of mistreatment, or if theyre dumb (conversationally, not academically), or if theyre incapable. im OUT

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

im picky about looks when its dating apps, but if they have any amount of charm irl ik id fold. oh and im 100% avoidant attatchment but fr the first guy to approach me irl with charm, and really pursue me in a respectful, charming, and consistent way is gonna get 110% of me like part of me fears if somekne ever DOES make their way into my life, id never leave them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

its so weird tho cause in all my classes i get crushes so easily, on guys i dont even find attractive…. but i think lowkey its cause ik i dont have to do anything abt it. also whenever i do swipe right on dating apps i literally HOLD MY BREATH that they wont match with me

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