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Ok I need some opinions on this. I’m talking to a guy that I really like, BUT I just found out we do not align politically on a bunch of things. We do however have the same opinions/morals. Is it worth still pursuing?
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Anonymous 2w

Lowk no depends on either! Do u want a short term relationship or long term, are the beliefs different enough that they’d cause trouble later

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Anonymous 2w

hmm lowkey i would but thats bc im just 19 and idk. if youre looking for like husband material, maybe not??

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Anonymous 2w

I’m interested in short term but open long term. He’s very respectful, smart and funny, and meets my other standards but I feel that politics also influences ethics/morals. And if you disagree doesn’t that mean they won’t support you personally??

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Anonymous 2w

What specifically do you not align on? Are they things that are a huge part of your life/ do they come up often and would not aligning make you feel unsafe or unsupported in any way?

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Anonymous 2w

I feel move on girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

even short term you never wanna be like embarrassed yo

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I mean if my bf is not ok with immigration I’m gonna have a problem, if he’s mediocre on feminism or queer rights which are things that affect me and my friends, then I’m not gonna be ok with it- if u aren’t willing to back all of me with ur vote and beliefs, then u can’t back me up as a person

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

He's pro choice, pro immigration, very educated on issues affecting poor non white communities and how they get exploited, but then he's a Trump supporter and I feel like that doesn't make sense. Especially with everything happening now in the world

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

That’s what I’m wondering cause how are we supposed to comment with no context

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

he’s 100% lying about actually supporting those things i fear. men will say anything to get what they want even if they don’t believe it themselves

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Him being a trump supporter while being pro choice and pro immigration is so contradictory that I honestly agree with #6. How are you gonna support an infamous racist, pedophilic, sexist, bigoted piece of shit of a human being but claim to support the ideas that MAGA is against??

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