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Crashing tf out bc my parents told me they want me to pay for my apartment this upcoming year, but my dad isn’t giving me access to my savings that I’ve been putting all my money into. I’m 22 and it stills labels me as a minor w/o signing this paperwork
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Anonymous 21w

wtf wdym he isn’t giving you access?? Do u not have ur own bank account? Why does he have access to ur money oh hell no 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21w

It’s set up as a custodial account and has me labeled as a minor. I can’t get access online or an app to see my money until he signs this paperwork with me. I’m in a state over and the only way I could get some money is by walking in the physical bank. I just asked him when we can sign the paperwork (like we talked about in March) and he texted “Ain’t gonna happen”… He also withdrew $12,000 from it this past year behind my back, making me extra terrified not being able to monitor it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21w

nahhh take his ass to civil court 🙁

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21w

I’m stressed sick and losing my mind over this. My savings money is partially what I’ve worked for and been gifted over time. The other part is paychecks from my dad’s business that he puts in weekly (like he did for my older sisters too) to save for our future. Now my mom said she’ll comb through my bank or tax records to see what exactly I worked for myself and only give me that money, but no access to my savings account in my name?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21w

My mom said bc it’s all my fault and bc of my behavior, but she has spent my whole life putting me down and lying to my family members about me so they don’t like me for whatever reason. I went through her phone and found sm evidence of it. Then when I told her that, she lied to my Dad saying I somehow went through all his financial stuff (that even she doesn’t have access to) so I’m not trusted with any money… She da just hung up on me when I said that is a lie she fully created

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