
That’s true. But ngl we kinda are in a country of elevated threat so that holds less water every day. But using “rock bottom” as a suppression tactic is never healthy and what’s your point? I hate people who say “stop complaining and appreciate” like no let me be uncomfortable and upset. You don’t get to invalidate my feelings cuz u think there’s worse!!
I read this book called How We Win (maybe How We Can Win - not sure) and it really emphasized a combination of rigorous work and compassionate self care so I think we have to embrace that ethic and extend the empathy we have towards others towards ourselves as well. Sometimes you just gotta vent about your day
No exactly, there’s always worse and them invalidating my negative feelings doesn’t make me want to bring them my good moods. Personalities like this are so grating and I just want them out of my face. Always looking for something negative to say about anything they hear then go and wonder why no one invites them anywhere
It’s woke gone too far, it begins in a good place but gets misplaced. I also think that this girl is so feminist that it turns into misogyny against women who do follow feminine lifestyles (even just in how feminine people carry themselves). She’s mimicked me in a bitch ass tone before so I know how she thinks of me, and when watching shows she’s always hating on feminine characters