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Is it not possible to be friends with a guy without them wanting more? How did I go so many years not wanting to be single and yet no one was interested. And now that I’m focused on specific stuff in my life. NOW I get random guys trying to ask me out?
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Anonymous 4w

And it’s always someone I feel comfortable around. And get along with. A guy who actually treats women like human beings. And has an actual BRAIN. But like. I don’t see us as more than friends. And then it makes everything awkward when I decline their advances-

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Anonymous 4w

i honestly do not think it’s possible

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

And I can always feel it coming and get all in my head. And then it’s confirmed. So I start going back through every interaction. Like did I lead them on?? What did I do that made them like me?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I feel like the only guy friends I manage to keep are ones I’ve had for a very long time. Or ones that think I’m a lesbian so they have no chances.

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