Girl Talk on Sidechat | i’m sorry but i see so many posts where a girl is like “my bf says he hates me and thinks im ugly and he always locks me out of the house if im not home by dark :/ but he’s sweet from 9am to 11am” R U HEARING URSELF !! FIND SOME SELF RESPECT !!!

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i’m sorry but i see so many posts where a girl is like “my bf says he hates me and thinks im ugly and he always locks me out of the house if im not home by dark :/ but he’s sweet from 9am to 11am” R U HEARING URSELF !! FIND SOME SELF RESPECT !!!

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Anonymous 3w

Kinda related this is especially prevalent in the “am I overreacting” sub Reddit it’s always like “my bf called me a dirty slut after I hung out with my dad am I overreacting for being upset?” And it’s like girl????

Anonymous 3w

it causes me so much pain. like what do you mean ur just brushing over ur partner literally saying they're better off without you? in no way is that a joke

Anonymous 3w

I had a friend like this. At some point you just have to separate yourself from the situation after trying to encourage them to see and find the beauty within themselves. Unfortunately, it sometimes stems from occurrences that happened as a child.

Anonymous 3w

Fr!! One time my friend was talking to her bf like that and she was saying that he used to be wonderful to her and she was just waiting for him to change back to his old self. I asked her, “But what if he never goes back to the old him?” She froze for like ten seconds before saying I was right. She broke up with him the next day and never looked back and I’m so proud of her. She was making herself miserable waiting for something that was never going to happen

Anonymous 3w

i was her once, there’s no telling how long it’ll take for them to realize if they ever do

Anonymous 3w

no bc i stop replying or caring about those. they like to be in pain so be it

Anonymous 3w

I once saw a post where a girl was saying that they need to “free her man” but then proceeded to tell us that he went to jail in the first places because he threw a crowbar at her…

Anonymous

#1 3w

i wanna feel bad for them but it’s hard when they’re looking down the barrel of a gun and going “aw but he buys me dinner sometimes”

Anonymous

#5 3w

I know from my own experience, I fully believed I deserved to have horrible friends, and that when teachers told me I was not worth the amount of effort they were putting into supporting other students simply because of things that happened between ages 5-12.

Anonymous

#5 3w

What the hell did I just read. For my own sake idk if I wanna know precisely, but I DO know those are some of the worst teachers I’ve ever heard of & shouldn’t be around kids. I’m so sorry that happened.

Anonymous

OP 3w

Okay as someone who was in an abusive relationship I GENUINELY believed he wasn’t in the wrong. I knew I was extremely upset by his behavior but he genuinely convinced me it was my failing and that he’s never done anything wrong. It’s dumb to think back on and I can’t explain why but in the moment it was impossible for me to see clearly

Anonymous

#10 3w

These comments also kinda hurt to read. I asked people “dumb” questions like this bc I GENUINELY didn’t know. All my friends and family were SO mean to me at the time bc they were annoyed by me and that did nothing but help me get deeper into the abuse bc I had to one to rely on but him

Anonymous

#10 3w

i’ve been in abusive relationships too. i’m there for my friends who have relationships like this. but after supporting and helping someone through these things, it’s rightfully frustrating to see them turn around and make the same mistakes 🤷‍♂️ after the third or fourth time it’s hard to feel sympathy for someone who doesn’t see to want help