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My friend triggers me so bad w how often she calls out of work. Idek why it bothers me it’s not like we have the same job but like OMG you just started last week!! How are you already calling out? 😭😭 grow up!!!
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Anonymous 20w

God, it’s probably just a personal issue of my own like I need to do some self reflecting. Cause like she’s had probably seven jobs minimum since I’ve known her and she has never made it more than two weeks into the job without calling out at least once for a dumbass reason like a headache. But like, why does that bother me?!!!!! it’s not like I’m her mom or she’s doing anything that affects me in any way😭

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Anonymous 20w

No I feel this so hard. Even with classes like wdym you’re skipping for the 2nd time this week I thought I was gonna have a class buddy

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Anonymous 20w

no this is valid

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Anonymous 20w

Do you know why she calls out so frequently? Because there are definitely valid reasons beyond getting sick. Like I have horrible insomnia and I fairly often go full nights without sleeping at all, but I can’t function like that so I call out of work. But I try to limit how much I call out as much as possible because I know it’s a bad look. But if she’s calling out for every possible reason just because she doesn’t want to go to work, then she’s in for a rude awakening

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

Usually it’s just she’s not feeling well and she’s like “it’s trueeee I called out eek and I immediately felt better after so I probably could’ve gone but oh well” which like okay that has happened to me before too maybe she was genuinely anxious about going in so much so that it caused her physical pain that relieved itself when she no longer had to go in. I used to get sick everyday before high school because I hated going so much. So there are understandable reasons and personal days are

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Totally valid too. However you can not want to go all day long you just simply still have to. That’s what being an adult is. But then also like fuck corporate America they would replace her in a heartbeat so I genuinely don’t know why it makes me upset. I’m telling yall maybe it’s just deep jealousy that I’m working rn and she’s not cus I do love her this is just a pet peeve. I wouldn’t say she’s an irresponsible person in general just perhaps a little lazy and unmotivated sometimes.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Because you have work ethic and probably work with someone like this

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